I don't know if any other mum's have been through this but my ED's relationship with her bf is a current worry for me. they have been together over a year. Both busy studying. She is slightly older than him and they went on holiday this year with his parents. They both have loads of friends and tend to do things separately as well as together.
She saw loads of him over christmas but then he went away with parents afterwards. She assumed they would see each other on new year when he got back but he arranged to go out with his mates and they had a row on the phone.
She sensibly went out to party with other friends but she still hasn't seen him. she says things are fine but she is waiting for him to come to her which is sensible but at the same time it really worries me. She says he is always like this and doesn't seem that bothered.
She gets really annoyed if I interfere and give my opinion but it really stresses me out probably more me than her. i know I need to mind my own business but I know his parents and we move in the same circle of friends, all very arkward.
My YD has a lovely bf. Just recently got together. I don't feel the same angst and worry.