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Teenage girl hair loss - help!

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Gloucestergirls · 14/04/2011 02:38

My daughter 12 has beautiful long hair. For a while now she is experiencing drastic hair loss when ever she combs or washes her hair. She has had her period for a while. Does anyone know what to do? For now she is taking a Vitamin B6 supplement, no improvement just yet.

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alarkaspree · 14/04/2011 04:12

Has she seen the doctor about it?

cyrilsneer · 14/04/2011 09:11

I would definitely start by taking her to the GP. Hopefully he/she will be able to rule out alopaecia or any other medical situation.

Then, re nutritional supplements - there's a make called Solgar (available online or from good independent health shops). They do a supplement called something like "Hair, Skin and Nails" that my friend swears by. Her hair started falling out and her hairdresser (top London salon) recommended these and Aveda shampoo and conditioner.

Expensive business though, I think, but she saw results and so, obviously, is relieved and delighted.

cyrilsneer · 14/04/2011 09:17

Just another thought... Is her hairdryer too hot? I wonder if she's damaging her hair with heat and the hairs are breaking off rather than falling out at the root, if you see what I mean?

After the GP, maybe you coyld take her to see a really goid hairdresser for a consultation/advice?

Good luck to your DD - poor little thing.

chopchopbusybusy · 14/04/2011 09:23

Is her hair noticeably thinning? My teenage DDs shed loads of hair. I pull hair balls out of the shower and bath daily! It clogs up the Hoover - we bought a dyson animal hoping it would cope better. The floor in front of DD2s mirror where she brushes her hair always has a very hairy coating.
If her hair is noticeably thinning I'd go to the GP, but in my experience they do just naturally lose a lot of hair, particularly noticeable when it's very long.

Gloucestergirls · 14/04/2011 13:08

Thank you for all your thoughts. It's very reassuring!
I do think it's more than the usual shedding, and her plait has thinned quite a lot. I will keep the hairdryer idea in mind as well.
I will take her to see the GP next week. This week we are on Easter break and away from home. Let's see what our lovely GP thinks. :-)

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cyrilsneer · 14/04/2011 14:30

Good luck to her, Gloucester. Post again and let us know how she gets on.

haggis01 · 14/04/2011 20:46

This happened my DD at about 15 and she was very upset - the hairdresser even commented on it. The GP thought there was nothing ostensibly wrong. My DD started to wash her hair every other day rather than every day and not to dry it on hot. She also started to use Hair skin and nails vitamins (the ones made by the people who make Imedeen). It has taken a long time but things did start to improve and 2 years on her hair is thicker (but nowhere near as thick as it was) and in excellent condition.

Good luck

cyrilsneer · 15/04/2011 09:00

Hormones must have something to do with it.

I wasn't aware that my hair had thinned during pregnancy until my hair-dresser pointed out all the fluffy, new growth around my hairline after I'd given birth. Apparently it's very common.

quirrelquarrel · 15/04/2011 19:41

I lost a LOT of hair last year- turned out to be a mix of stress and seborrheic dermatitis. Annoying thing is that it's very mild dermatitis, nothing like the horrible pictures on the internet, and still my hair was coming out all the time...v. annoying! I lost about 2/3 of my ponytail width, but luckily I had very thick hair so it doesn't look too terrible. It still starts to come out more if I don't shampoo with nasty chemical shampoos every other day, which is another annoying thing because I prefer only to use mild stuff. But anyway, if her head is itching or she's getting stressed, it could have provoked dermatitis. Or- but this is quite rare- her scalp could have had an allergic reaction to shampoo, which would manifest itself like dermatitis in that you'd lose hair, except no extra sebum.

If she's had a very sharp shock around three months before it started, she could have telogen effluvium, lots of info on the internet about it. If she has an underactive thyroid or polycystic ovary syndrome, that could be a reason, or just because it's Spring- some unlucky people shed heavily after winter. Maybe her iron levels are too low.
Don't pay for bottles of Biotin- they're unlikely to do much unless she has a biotin defficiency, which is very unlikely. Alopecia is another possibility, but it's doubtful. Does she tie up her hair a lot? When I was younger I couldn't stand having hair around my face so I tied it up tightly every day and in photos I can see my hairline went back a couple of cm- it all grew back. In any case, since she's young, it'll almost definitely be nonscarring. Something heartening might be to check if the fallen hair has bulbs/roots on the end- if they do, it means a new hair has pushed it out and is growing.

She might want to avoid 'minituarisation' of the follicles by using some sort of clarifying shampoo, or cutting out dairy or whatever works for you. I have tons of hairs which are thinner at the ends and thicker at the roots, because it minituarised and then sorted itself out. But if it doesn't sort itself out, you can just keep regrowing fine unpigmented baby hair. If she becomes desperate, have a go at oil pulling.

She might be tempted to start not washing her hair as often or not brushing it because of all the hair that comes out- do encourage her to, because it's better to have a little shock everyday than an awful one once a week when you do do it, because it collects.
I'm sorry she's losing her hair, it does feel awful! The thing is, it's the old thing of being self concious. It looks better to everyone else. The important thing is to keep her confidence up about it, if she's just washed it, pay her a compliment about it looking full and healthy, ask her about it from time to time. Hope it stops very soon!

mrsobriain · 21/08/2012 22:27

Just been searching mumsnet for hair loss in teenagers and came across this, if gloucestergirls can put update would be great, my dd is currently going through this and I don't know what to do about it. Thanks.

brighteyedbusytailed · 23/08/2012 14:47

take her to the GP, my mate has alopecia such a cruel condition for a young girl.

mrsobriain · 23/08/2012 16:10

Thanks brighteyed, I am trying to get an appointment for next week.

readsalotgirl · 26/08/2012 19:07

Hi - had a similar situation last year with dd then nearly 12. It was very worrying and I spent a lot of time searching the internet.

Initially dd lost a small patch of hair (about the size of a 10p piece) She then lost a much bigger patch on the other side of her head. We initially saw the practice nurse who gave us steroid ointment but arranged for blood tests as it can be symptomatic of thyroid problems and anemia - there wasa third blood test but I can't remember what that was for - sorry. Steroid ointment didn't seem to do much and dd developed sebhorric dermatitis also so we got ketoconazale shampoo which helped at first but then dd developed a reaction to that and it got worse.

It was very worrying and my dh was really freaked out by it. We made sure we were using additive free shampoo and being very careful about cleaning hairbrushes/combs. We had a very sympathetic hairdresser who was very reassuring. Dd wore the bandana type hairbands which covered the thin patch and school were very supportive.

We got a referral to a dermatologist who said that it was alopecia and that the outcome would be (a) it would grow back and never fall out again, (b) grow back but could happen again or (c) not improve. She was not very convinced of the actual benefits of steroid ointment but felt it might have a psychological benefit.

About 3 months before this all happened dd was definitely "under the weather" - not really ill but had several weeks where she was very tired and just not quite right. I am convinced - and both the GP and specialist agreed - that she had some sort of virus and the hair loss was an auto- immune response.

I'm happy to say that a year on all dd's hair has grown back and you'd never know there had been a problem. We still use shampoo which is additive free and we are careful that dd eats healthily & gets plenty of sleep. She does also take a multivitamin and I was very careful over the winter that she didn't wear herself out with too many activities and late nights.

I hope your dd is ok - we had a very worrying time and it was hard not to let dd see how worried I was. I did feel that the specialists didn't really have any answer and that it was pretty much in the lap of the gods. I was kept sane by the very sympathetic hairdresser and by the school who were very supportive.

Sorry this is so long and not more positive - I did keep telling myself (and dd) it would get better and it did - so fingers and everything else crossed for you

Dkafle4 · 14/01/2018 19:59

Hello to all! I am new hair but not to hair loss. My 15 year old daughter is thinning so badly that she has a windows peak. The doctor's keep telling me she's fine and it's all because of her illness's stress four months ago. Can someone please help me. Her hair fall is back to normal and I see regrowth everywhere except the windows peak :((

MomInNY · 26/08/2019 12:02

My daughter was around 13 or 14 years of age when I noticed her hair shedding / thinning. Before then, her her was down to her waist and thick. She is now 19 Nd it has not improved. Her pediatrician is a joke, endocrinologist says her testerone is ‘slightly’ elevated but not enough to cause this problem, and dermatologist did the ‘pull test’ and then wanted to do a biopsy of the scalp/hair follicle which my daughter refused to do. The more I read, I’m thinking it might be androgenetic alopecia but hope it is not. Apparently, for women, this can begin as early as 12 years of age but usually does not occur until much later in life (for e.g. during menopause). Honestly I keep prayering that her hormones balance out soon and there is a turnaround but I don’t know.

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