My exH has a huge salary, massive house, pool, tennis court and completely indulges the kids (bought and pays running costs for cars, supports them financially etc). Kids go there from uni for holidays, which I sort of understand as there is much more for them to do there and it is closer to their old school friends. I don't see them as much as I want to. And am struggling with the 'happy families' pictures of them with their father and his new wife on facebook etc. I have much smaller house, with room for them to stay but not enough room for them to have all their things here. Anyone been in a similar position and can offer some moral support?