Hi
My two daughters aged 15 and 13 don't get on too well with their father, my ex husband. We've been divorced for four years now.He hasn't given me maintenance for the girls for years as he hasn't a secure job which has pissed me off to the point that I don't want anything more to do with him, following years of getting on as friends for the sake of the girls. He's accepted that it's finally time to move on but he texted me to say he'd like me to help in creating a healthy relationship with the girls. How do I do that? They see him as quite volatile, self centred and a loser that doesn't help financially. I tell them to text him but they don't want to. I think it should be him that makes the effort. He's never made the times he had with them fun on purpose as I wasn't there and he spent a lot of the time crying in front of them. He's damaged them and they don't want him anymore. Advice please would be great as I'm stumped. Linda