I have a 13 year old daughter who disrespects me and her SD.She is angry all the time.If i tell her to do her jobs she screams and shouts if i tell her of she says she will phone social services and say i have hit her,she even gets payed for doing the jobs she does.She screams at her other smaller brothers and sister.She tells me her Sm is the best mam ever even though her Sm never wants her, and i have been there for her through everything in her life.I cant talk to her as she wont listen she just pulls cocky faces and says what ever and sneers at me.I have not long since had a fairly major op and she knows it and seems to revel in, telling people i nearly died when i never, it seems to be a good attention thing for her with other people.I just want my little girl back and don't know what to do.