Hello I am a newbie so this is my first post!! Ok here goes!! My 10 year old son confided in me recently that he had seen what must have been pornographic content whilst looking on the computer with his friend in his friends house! He was very bothered about it and even though I had told him the facts of life a month or so previously when he asked, this seems to have really unsettled him. He told me what the content was and even though I didn't see it I feel that it was severe enough. I have spoken to him at length about it but now he says that he can't stop thinking of things of a sexual nature. He also says that he thinks of boys aswell as girls in a sexual nature??!! I have told him that is probably because he is curious about what other boys are going through but I am just clutching at straws! I was a single parent for 6 years and it was just my son and I with quite a large input from my own Dad and Mum until I met my new partner whom I have a 1 and a 1/2 year old daughter with. I have spoken to my son at length about this as have my parents and sisters all of whom he is very close to but he says that he has these thoughts all the time which are mostly of a sexual nature. To be honest he tells me all of these thoughts as we are extremely close but I am having difficulty in dealing with this as I do not know where to turn. We have reassured him that he is normal and that we love him no matter what but it is starting to put a huge strain on our family as it appears to consume him completely. He is an extremely honest child and maybe this is his downfall as he feels he needs to tell us everything. Previous to this he was a happy ,outgoing and funny boy but now seems teary and subdued all the time. I have also noticed that he requires deoderant as he has quite strong body odour and he is quite hairy!! Please help I feel I am hanging on by a thread!!Thanks x