Hi, My daughter is 17 and now 24 weeks pregnant, she is going to live at home with us and baby until she has qualified and finished her aprenticeship. We have got our heads around her having a baby and are happy to support her. The problem is her boyfriend. He is jobless, not even looking, has lost his car and owes lots of money. He is fond of the bookies, and weed. At the moment he does not come to our house. I have said he can come when he has a job and is showing that he wants to support our daughter who is still working 50 hours per week. She has recently been in tears at least once a week and there relationship has been on and off. He has also slept with someone else while she has been pregnant. She has again taken him back. She spends most of her evening with him. I am really concerned about this relationship even there friends have been warning her about him and his lack of respect for her. I want to support her but really cant bear the thought of supporting him. I know we cant tell her what to do and I understand that she feels she needs him at this vunerable time. I just can see that he is no good and this is not a relationship to bring a poor baby into. What to do is the question. We have tried talking to her and have offered her our support. She does not want us involved or to talk to us about their relationship.