Out of control teenage girls

[RageAgainstTheTeen]

Anyone else dealing with the vileness of teenage girls?

So far d(not adding the 'dear' at the moment)has

Lied about having an older boyf (shes 15.5 ,he's 18/19)
Runaway with said boyf and been brought home by police
Smoked in her room constantly when told it's banned in our house.
Having underage sex (found preg test in her room)
Found clues to dope useage (bong found in room)
Refusing to go to school
General shitty behaviour towards us and younger siblings.

Had enough now and called in SS to help us sort this mess out.

Anyone else dealing with vile behaviour?

i think its the moon

my lovely dd and dh had a row last night, she HATES us and is NEVER COMING BACK

dh says good IM LOCKING THE DOOR your NOT COMING BACK

so she fucks off and i haven heard from her since 10pm last night

just send her a text:

ru ok, i'm not bothered but george [the dog] told me to ask, she would have text you herself but shes got paws STUPID!

Let me join! DD (14) is the child from hell at the moment. Last week let some boys in the house who stole DS birthday presents and then she ran away! Three times the police were called to bring her home. I am obviously the most evil mother in the world! She has come round a little bit after spending Sat and Sun out of the house with no where to go and I had taken house keys, phone, ipod, laptop etc off of her. This week she is a different child, polite, calm going to school - however it won't last and in a few weeks we will start the circus all over again - I'm exhausted!

Maryz-I have threatened drug testing her,she didn't seem bothered by that but then she's not bothered by any threat of sanctions from us.

She says the boyf goes to college and also works in local supermarket but she tells so many lies,we don't take that information as gospel truth.

All is quiet here and she has attended school and come home at reasonable times.I'm not holding my bloody breath though.

Any news Cust? Do you know where she is?

Understand Bucks,it's like a calm before the storm isn't it? How is ds? did you manage to replace his presents.I'd be doing my flipping nut if I was you. at the thieving shits.

DS was devastated new ipod touch went! I have arranged for it to be replaced and DD is on no allowance until I am paid back.

I did blow up and up until now have always cut her some slack she has been through a rough couple of years nasty divorce a Dad who has basically dropped her but enough is enough. As i pointed out lots of kids go through a bad patch but they don't turn into nasty little sh*ts! so its now tough love from now on and no second chances.

she replied

LOL, sorry i didn't text my phone is dying.

i'll take that as an apology! shit i take what i can get kwim?!

Glad you have heard from her cust.Just a one off hormonal thang maybe?

I don't speak to D if she's rude,sweary,demanding or just plain vile.I find they hate the silent treatment .I say to her 'I'm not speaking to until you can act like a decent human being' if anything it breaks the constant screaming/yelling/whining as she has no attention.

shes not usually like that tbh - when she gets shouty i just ignore her becuase she loves the drama

but DH (nobber) gets shouty too and it turned into something it shouldn't have done if only DH 9 who did have valid points) had approached the whole thing differently

Yep, D is the same, "well don't answer me then" comes the vile tone. Haven't been in her room for weeks, it must stink by now. Thought I would be nice today and pick her up from school. She didn't answer her phone and kept cutting it off. gave up and came home, when finally got hold of her, she said she was in detention. (yet again!!!) She is going on behaviour report next week. Wants a friend to stay tonight, I bet her attitude is rubbish always escalates when friends are around.

Custardo, my DH gets all shouty and cross, has no patience at all. Trouble is he is in Army (senior rank) and not used to cocky teenagers answering back. When he tells young lads to do something they generally do it first time. That's why he cannot deal with her.

I think they should reduce the joining age for the army to 13 and make it compulsory. Anybody know where they is a BRAT camp in England.

Nope.

I have checked,they are all usa based sadly.

Evil mothers are us!

about to send e-mail to ministry of defence regarding lowering the joining age of armed services and bringing back national service just for girls! Great idea toomany!