Childless

[Kate0902900908]

Hi everyone / anyone

I’m so low at the moment and was just wondering if anyone is feeling the same or has any advice.

Me and husband have been together 5 years married for 2 have our own home and are financial stable - we’re not rich but not struggling

I have double uterus, double cervix, both wombs are smaller than normal, o negative blood and endometriosis.

We have gone through all the tests and we have been told there is not a clear reason we’re not getting caught pregnant. Eggs and spearm all ok.

I’m currently on my second cycle of clomid and I’m just beginning to think even if I do get caught is it really wise due to all the other issues I have.

I have looked into surrogates in the uk and couldn’t get 30k together it’s just not achievable for us.

I’ve also had a look at going abroad to use a surrogate but I fear these women are being forced or pressured into it and that doesn’t sit right with my values.

I come from a large loving family as does my husband and all I want is to have a baby just one child

I just don’t know what to do ?
Is anyone else feeling the same ?

Xx

Hi OP! Hope you are doing great!
If you need any advice you can message me. I do not think it'd be a good idea to talk here about any options.
I am in the middle of surrogacy program abroad. So if you are indeed interested in this option you can PM me. There are a lot of FB groups as well.

It may be that a member of your extended family or close friend could be a surrogate - I know two people who have have children this way (one used ivf, the other the natural way first time). It's certainly worth exploring such options - I would have been willing for my family as I actually liked being pregnant but couldn't afford more kids.