i have a puppy of 15weeks a rabbit of 10 months and a baby of 8months but i really want a pet rat, my dh is dead against it always has bee but i ve wanted one for years the closest i got was a cuddly toy rat from ikea which he bought me to shut me up for a bit!!!!! any advice shud i go behind his back and get one, should i have one? or shud i just give in and accept i ll never have one? advice pleeeeeeeeeze