Husband of 14 years, 2 kids 9+ 13, both profoundly disabled. Life is constantly stressful but we manage, just. He was sober when I met him, working the programme, but relapsed after the diagnoses of both our kids spectacularly- found wandering in road by police, checked into rehab at vast cost we couldn’t afford, awful dark times. We have slowly tried to rebuild trust but it’s not ever been the same since. He told me once he can’t have non alcoholic beers as they lead to alcoholic ones, but a year ago I noticed he was drinking blue beers again. I let it slide, perhaps foolishly. He’s not gone to meetings in a long time. Always with very good excuses, life
At home is very hard on top of work. He’s been stressed lately at work, and tonight I’ve just found an alcoholic unopened bottle of beer in the fridge. I don’t know what to do - remove it and see if he asks for it? Ask him (if it is for him he’ll 100 deny it and say he must have bough the wrong kind) I just don’t know what to do and am so scared of another relapse😢