My partner has a drug problem (cocaine) which he was ‘working on’ (I found out a month ago). I gave him another chance as I was convinced he would get the help he needs and fight it for me and for my daughter (2 yo). 2 weeks ago I caught him on our cctv picking up drugs outside the house. I chucked him out. Now I am drug testing him whenever he wants to see our daughter and I’ve said I’ll only allow unsupervised visits when he can show me a negative test. His tests have been positive for cocaine for 2 weeks now and he’s saying he hasn’t done it since I last caught him on the cctv. Has anyone ever experienced a positive urine test 2 weeks later??? Or am I being naive in believing this was the last time he did it?
I really don’t know what to do! I stupidly left my job in April as our daughter wasn’t getting on well in childcare so have no job, it’s his house and we are not married. I feel so stupid for believing he would take care of us and can’t believe I’m in this situation! Do I have any rights over the house? I really don’t know what to do!