My daughter,42, has a drink problem and I don’t know how to help her. Her behaviour is truly shocking and yesterday she was arrested and has been charged with assaulting a police officer, she will almost certainly lose her job over this drunken performance. I try very hard to be supportive but I feel that this does more harm than good, I actually feel like slapping her. She is happily married and enjoys her job, she has a good life, no children through choice, but holidays extensively. We’ve tried therapy, AA meetings,support groups but nothing seems to make any difference. She has taken two overdoses in the last month and I am so frightened she is going to accidentally kill herself. I’m at a complete loss.