Ex partner has done cocaine socially since early 20s out with his mates and he loves a drink.
We suffered a loss 1 year into our relationship we are both mid 30s now. I then found out he had zero money after working full time and tracing the money he admitted Cocaine use in his car alone 3 times or more a week for 10 months. I was devastated. Due to the lies and the debt. He was in 3k which he borrowed to clear it.
Gave him a second chance swore wouldn't ever use again. Did a few CA Meetings but stopped.
Fast forward 2 years: this is where I need to know does this indicate use or close again:
1.A old friend who he used
To do coke with texts him out the blue saying 'if you need any more mate , let me no'
2.he's agitated regularly, sweats profusely even in the cold.
- I found texts to his work colleague saying he owes a local dealer £££ and he is skint Cz he owes money (when confronted says he was joking about it. It's just banter)
- Recently after Tryin to win me back, shows me his bank transactions showing £100 here and there to his work mate who also does Drugs weekly.
When confronted he said his colleague *has had issues with his bank account so he gets him to transfer money to him and his mate gives him
The cash.*
Swore blind he is not using.