Been seeing someone for a few months , was great at first like most things are
Then a few months in he told me he was recovering from coke , he had attempted suicide a couple of years ago and gone briefly to rehab and was now doing well , weekly therapy etc because he has so much trauma from his childhood if he doesn't go he feels he withdraw into himself and shut the world out .
Last week he got upset and told me he was so tempted to relapse and get a line as he feels so much pain and is always hurting.
I've been as supportive as I can , totally there for him I understand depression and although he's told me some of his past I don't know it all except he said he's never been loved and struggles accepting being loved.
Cut forward to this week , I've peed him off in a arguement and he's decided he's hurting to much and he's now chosen to completely ignore me , no contact at all.
Of course I'm hurting , I can't keep texting I don't want to beg him to be with me and I can't pressure him either.
The last few weekends he's pretty much slept all the way through them
, then messaged all groggy when he has woken , he's having some health investigations he's worrying about too but he's told me he ended his last relationship because he couldn't cope with being cared about.
Do relationships like this ever work out or am I best to stay not contacting even though of course it's hurting like anything