Just looking for a second option really .
Long story trying to make short .
Just over 6 years ago I lost my partner to alcoholism. Life was hard for all concerned .
New chapter I started a relationship just over 2 years ago with a pleasant chap he treated us well said all the right things and I started to really like him . I have 2 children at home 18 and 11 and he has one of 17 . He works away 2 weeks out of every month and although I found it strange at first we got into a rountine where by when he came home he would stay at my house one night and one night at his . He had always had a glass of red wine when he stays sometimes I join him sometimes not but what I have noticed he had started drinking more and he gets very argumentative after a few ,not majorly but enough to be annoying . My daughter seems to get the brunt end if it ! Where by he will pick on her faults as being too needy of me . Her being silly with her dog . And he would rather not do things with my family if we go shopping he doesn’t really want them to come . If we go for a walk he would rather it be just him and me . Any thoughts on going forward or am I fighting a losing battle . If all come to a head last night when my daughter said she doesn’t like him coming round when he’s had a drink . And I feel for her . She must feel like old times again . I know she’s ola enough to do her own thing but she shouldn’t feel uncomfortable in her own home no matter what age .