Both 29. Have a young child and another on the way. Partner is addicted to cocaine. It started off just at the odd party and developed. Now it's every Thursday night at least that I know about. They're starting to lie about getting it. Only a gram or two a week and sometimes I'm told it's free cuz they run some round to other people for the dealer.
The other month they asked me to help a friend out cuz they owed £200 in drug bill and didn't have it. I said ok can't see a friend getting into trouble but it's not happening again. They admitted last week after me hounding to get paid back from the friend that it was actually them that owed the money. It was the same last week.
They're obviously lying about how much they're getting if it's been racked up to £200. I don't know if I can even help them now. They're off work today cuz they sat up all night drinking, I suspect it's been more than drink. Like many people I don't want to give up on my partner but this isn't healthy and it's clearly starting to effect other aspects of our lives. I'm worried about my family judging me because I know about it and haven't left straight away.