Need some advice please.
I'm a rather fearful person when it comes to relationships so this will explain why I'm posting here.
Myself and my children's dad got back together around 8 months ago. He was a heavy cocaine user & this developed in to a full on habit. Every weekend, most evenings & even began using at home. It destroyed our relationship as he became abusive during the come downs.
After being split for 2.5 years I saw real positive change, he had been for counselling & attending support groups (mainly on the abuse side of things).
Since being back together things have been taken very slow on my part. He has used around 2 or 3 times. It's usually social things, at a party or when he meets up with a certain friend.
The morning after it's like nothing's happened, he doesn't feel sorry for himself, he seems to have developed self control rather than it turning in to 4-5 day binges.
I guess it's like falling off the wagon and getting back on - one day at a time. He speaks openly and says it's on his mind al the time, I feel guilt as I shamed him when he used. I'd say horrible things to him. Now I try my hardest to not shame him and understand.
I don't battle with addiction so I find it hard. Reaching out for a little support that things will be ok?