Please help...
My sister in law's wedding is this Saturday, and although I've been de-bridesmaided (long story!) I'm still at the top table...
I have a fascinator to wear, but have never worn one before- all the other women in the family seem to be wearing hats.
My fascinator is quite large- its on a headband/alice band thing, and is basically a large disc with flowers etc on top...so almost as big as a hat...
My questions is- during the meal, am I supposed to keep this on my head? If it was just a small tuft of feathers I would, but as it looks like a hat, what are the rules? What if mother of the bride/groom take their hats off???
Maybe I'm thinking too much about it!
Thank you!!!