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What does 'Formal Dresscode' mean on a wedding invite?

13 replies

arcadia96 · 04/05/2010 19:43

Does anyone know what this means? Have just noticed it on a wedding invite.

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said · 04/05/2010 19:45

No leggings?

KissWithAFistula · 04/05/2010 19:47

That someone will be at door of church, judging you and telling you that you haven't made it through to wedding bootcamp a la Simon Cowell

KissWithAFistula · 04/05/2010 19:48

That someone will be at door of church, judging you and telling you that you haven't made it through to wedding bootcamp a la Simon Cowell

KissWithAFistula · 04/05/2010 19:50

Bollocks

RubysReturn · 04/05/2010 19:56

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Pennies · 04/05/2010 20:01

No bare shoulders, hat, pref a dress rather than trousers.

nappyzoneloveslindor · 04/05/2010 20:04

dunno - dicky tie and suit for men? We got one recently that requested dinner suits and party frocks and then detailed where they had negotiated a suit hire deal at.

MaryBS · 04/05/2010 20:08

It could well mean morning suits and top hats for men - you might want to check...

Fel1x · 04/05/2010 20:13

what? ALL the guests in morning suits and top hats?? surely that doesnt happen
It just means suits for men and smart dress type outfit for ladies imo

nigglewiggle · 04/05/2010 20:13

Previously I would have said that it meant morning suits etc. But I have recently heard more and more tales of people turing up to weddings in jeans/trainers etc, so I wonder if it's just a 'polite nudge' towards making a bit of an effort.

annh · 04/05/2010 20:22

I think it could mean anything or nothing and if their idea is to avoid people turning up looking very casual in a pair of jeans, they run the risk of the whole thing looking ridiculous with a vague wording like that. Formal could indeed mean black tie/tails/just dressy/none of the above. I would call them up and ask them what the bloody hell they mean (just maybe more politely!)

cloelia · 04/05/2010 21:40

No bride should specify what her guests should wear. It is just v bad manners. She just has to hope that the style of her invitation/event encourages her guests to dress in an appropriate manner. Formal Dresscode is a ridiculous instruction as it can mean a wealth of different things. I would go for a jacket/no jeans look for men and smart for women, whatever you like and feel good in (but not too revealing if in a church). I would never feel it necessary to wear a hat unless I actually wanted to.

wineismysaviour · 05/05/2010 08:42

Guys in suits, girls in dresses / trousers & pashmina combo blah blah and prob hats or facinator (yuk) etc.

Perfectly acceptable for bride to specify formal attire. Its her wedding, she can do what ever she wants.

If it was morning suits, it would have stated 'Morning Dress', which it didn't.

I suspect as annh, she just wants people to make an effort and dress up.

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