Ok I have huge norks, a bit of a belly and a big arse (inherited from my Mum), short torso in comparison with my legs, which are ok from below knee and downwards. Am a size 18/20 for a dress it could possibly be a 22 because of norks and would have it taken in. I like to blend in the background and don't want to announce I've arrived so to speak when it comes to colours and patterns, although because of my complexion most can get away with a few colours. Please help me???