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Are shirt dresses frumpy?

30 replies

Kathyis6incheshigh · 13/01/2009 18:53

Trying to find nice practical dresses for work to make a change from jeans.
I seem to look nice in shirts so would a shirt dress be ok?

I have quite a good waist so with a belt would it look ok?

(you see I know nothing about style).

thanks.

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VampiresWalkin · 13/01/2009 19:08

My friend pulls them off. Not literally or she would be cold and people would stare.

Me, they look like hell because the time I get them to fit the norks, they are huge everywhere else, and if I go with everywhere else fitting, I get porno norks.

Mercy · 13/01/2009 19:13

I think they are great - belt is essential

(but i know nothing about style either tbh)

mrsmaidamess · 13/01/2009 19:16

I have a lovely one from H&M which is gently smocked under the arms so is waisted already. Its dead flattering.

Kathyis6incheshigh · 14/01/2009 09:45

Thanks all.
I was worried everyone would go 'shirt dress, noooooooo'.

Style v confusing.

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nailpolish · 14/01/2009 09:47

they can be frumpy
denim for example - no
elasticated waists - no
with flat shoes - no
with aline skirt - no

otherwise they are very stylish

minxofmancunia · 14/01/2009 09:53

can be stylish but look better with small norks IMO ( but then most clothes do, unfortunately for me), belt essential with nice heeled shoes or boots and striking accessories.

MrsBadger · 14/01/2009 09:54

yes if they are stylish (think slightly 40s or 50s, or a bit military, or a bit safari)

not if they are long, full and/or mumsy

cool
cool
cool

not cool
not cool

treading a fine line

BonsoirAnna · 14/01/2009 09:57

No they can be very sexy indeed.

I had a fabulous Chloé shirt dress (S/S 2001) that was one of my best ever buys - it was expensive but its price-per-wear must have been one of my lowest ever... I just wore it (with gold sandals) to death

RIP

nailpolish · 14/01/2009 09:57

goo d searching there mrsB!

sometimes i think white or blue can be a bit uniformy/nursey though

in the eightiesi had a white one with pink vertical stripes. very lady Di

i wish i still had it i would wear it to schools sports day for the mothers race ( and win, natch)

Kathyis6incheshigh · 14/01/2009 09:58

Thanks.

accessories.... sounds bit complicated for me....

I do normally wear flat shoes but if they are girly I presume they would be alright?

would flat boots be very bad?

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nailpolish · 14/01/2009 09:59

flat boots would be ok if the dress was a heavy material
girlsy shoes for eg pumps would be ok

nailpolish · 14/01/2009 09:59

pumps = ballerinas

Mercy · 14/01/2009 09:59

That denim one is hideous!

Kathyis6incheshigh · 14/01/2009 10:00

rofl @ the first Cotton Traders one. That made me feel less frumpy as I would not ever never wear one like that.

The purple Boden one is at least a nice colour, but I'm trying to avoid Boden as it never seems that well cut.

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nailpolish · 14/01/2009 10:01

personally i avoid linen ones too
they just crease too much
and can be see-through

BonsoirAnna · 14/01/2009 10:03

I think shirt dresses are much, much better with flat shoes or boots. Heels get you far too close to the frumpy suburbanite danger zone .

Metallic flats (gold sandals, silver or purple ballerinas) are pretty, comfortable and not mumsy.

mrsmaidamess · 14/01/2009 10:10

As usual with the Boden pictures, it is IMPOSSIBLE to see what the clothes actually look like. They are the worst photos !

stillstanding · 14/01/2009 10:13

Noooo - they can be really, really cool but agree that belt essential and can't imagine them looking good with anything other than flats.

Countingthegreyhairs · 14/01/2009 10:16

I agree about the nork fitting problem .. sometimes that can be overcome by wearing camisole/vest underneath and leaving many buttons open at top ....but it depends on fit/cut of the dress and how the waist sits ....(this look is best with cinched (spelling?) in waist)

Agree also about linen ones getting too creased - but good as cover up on beach where crumples don't matter too much - especially in strong colour

Kathyis6incheshigh · 14/01/2009 10:17

This is very helpful. Thank you all so much.

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BonsoirAnna · 14/01/2009 10:19

I think shirt dresses are best for Spring/Summer. I prefer a sweater dress for Autumn/Winter (one with a nice cosy roll-neck). The same simple accessorizing rules still apply - flat-but-glamorous shoes, perhaps a belt (this really depends on your body type) or a long/large necklace and a nice but not overly ornate bag.

KayHarkerIsRatherCheesedOff · 14/01/2009 10:22

You can get some lovely ideas from here.

Umlellala · 14/01/2009 10:26

I love shirt dresses but HATE buttons on shirt pockets, y'know right where your nipples are...

Kathyis6incheshigh · 14/01/2009 10:30

Ooh yes Kay, and me and dd can match!

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