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do you find people treat you differntly depending onhow you are dressed etc?

37 replies

lovelysongbird · 31/07/2008 16:57

i do.

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lovelysongbird · 31/07/2008 23:18

aww

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Earlybird · 03/08/2008 15:27

I feel differently depending on how I'm dressed, which affects my outlook/attitude/mood.

MrsBadger · 03/08/2008 15:33

yes of course

is this a surprise or something?

lizandlulu · 03/08/2008 19:04

i work in a scrap yard and occasionaly have to nip into town in my work clothes which are filthy.
i once was in m & s getting something for my mum and got short changed. i told the cahsier what she had done and was instantly snotty and sneery at me.
i am sure if i had been dressed in my usual clean clothes she would not have had that attitude.

FrannyandZooey · 03/08/2008 19:07

I have found if I wear my usual clothes at a car boot sale people try to rip me off
dp noticed it first
I started dressing a bit more skanky and got much better prices offered

Blondilocks · 03/08/2008 19:13

The main times I've noticed it were in places like House of Fraser & Jigsaw - they look down on you if your in jeans & trainers but if you're a bit smarter they don't.

It really annoys me!

ib · 03/08/2008 19:19

Interestingly (considering everyone else's experience), no, I don't.

Or maybe I'm just too spacey to notice.....

Tbh I like to be ignored in shops, I hate being hovered over.

no1putsbabyinthecorner · 03/08/2008 19:28

I once went to a local supermarket wearing jeans and zip up hooded top not much make up had been helping mum with horses all day.
Only nipped in for something for tea and a bottle of wine.
I got asked for ID. I said I was flattered but Im 30 tomorow but because I didnt have any suitable ID they wouldnt serve me.

So I left everything in a huff. Was only when I got half way to next supermarket that I remembered I used to work there for a while and new most of the staff in there.

Was in week before with heels and make up and got served no problem.

Also seem to get followed around boots
Have noticed a difference when with dd and when out alone too.

PavlovtheCat · 03/08/2008 19:34

When I was dressed goth/punk/grunge, people would cross the street, would not sit next to me on the bus. I used to get followed around by the local supermarket security guard.

Less than a year later, when I was at court in work capacity I wore a suit, plain, smart hair, and the same security guard said hello!!!

Even now, I find suit dressing very powerful.
But perhaps its how I feel that influences it.

As a goth/punk etc, I looked more moody, was less confident so probably ooze negative vibes.

When I wear my suit, i feel very confident, like I am a professsional, I hold myself much much differerntly to when I am wearing my shorts, flipflops and unkempt hair!

PavlovtheCat · 03/08/2008 19:36

catweazle I dont necessarily think that is true, about the outfit being what people find attractive not the child.

DD often wears blue. She has a lovely floral blue and white top and blue leggings which she wears, she looks gorgeous, and often gets told so when wearing this, or her other blue things, as much as when she wears pink. Unless she is in a party dress of course, then everyone comments much more.

deeeja · 03/08/2008 22:31

Since I started wearing islamic dress, I definately get treated differently. I get followed around shops by security gaurds, ignored in clothes shops, and often have to put on my most authoritative accent to deal with people. I find it extremely irritating!
Funnily enough in central London, in shops such as Liberty's and Selfridges, shop assistants are falling over themselves to be nice to me, they must think I am a rich Arab.
My dh has noticed that when we both have to talk to medical professionals (related to special needs for kids) they will often ignore what I say, and then dh repeats it word for word, and they note it down.

BananaSkin · 04/08/2008 17:13

Yes.

Why are people that work in clothes shops generally so snooty? Not wishing to offend anyone that does, but it's not something that most people would aspire to, so what makes them think it is OK to look down on others?

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