I am a mum myself so know what I would like, but I did know my children were girls etc and she does not now sex. So, she is having her first baby, stylish, girly and likes quality over quantity.
Here are a few ideas:
Oi Oi changing mat on Cool Garden:
www.kiddicare.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplayA_442_10751_-1__63844_10001_
But, if you had a boy, would still use this?
Other ideas are these:
www.babeswithbabies.com/product_details.asp?product=Mia+Chocolate+Baby+Changing+Bag&product_id=733
This can be used by both parents:
www.babeswithbabies.com/product_details.asp?product=Alex+Unisex+Baby+Changing+Bag&product_id=1231
this is more for the mum:
www.babeswithbabies.com/product_details.asp?product=Circle+of+Life+Pendant&product_id=1060
www.babeswithbabies.com/product_details.asp?product=Love-Love+Bracelet&product_id=431
What do you think?