There's a group of mum friends I've known for about a year and we have recently started going out for meals as a group.
It's really nice, only I sometimes feel like they all have some unwritten communication or something, because they often all turn up wearing similar things!
It's all neutral, geometric patterns, similar hoop earrings etc. I think they are just on some wavelength that I am not (or maybe they follow fashion more than I do).
I tend to just wear colours and prints that I like, which aren't necessarily trendy but feel like "me". But I'm starting to feel like the odd one out. I'm a bit arty/ alternative so although I dress nicely (I think), I don't particularly follow what's on trend etc.
I really like these people though, our children are the same age and I really enjoy their company and chatting over dinner, it's nice to get out and have a nice meal once a month or so!
In my shoes, would you change your style to fit in more?
I'm not talking a complete overhaul but would you wear something a bit more neutral?
Last time I was literally the only one wearing anything colourful in a group of 8 people.... just not sure if I'm overthinking or if they are all secretly thinking WTF is she wearing... 😅