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Wedding guest dress

49 replies

Tiltedd · 30/07/2026 01:41

Specifically ‘cocktail / formal no white

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/satin-long-dress-emerald/

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-chocolate-brown-polka-dot-knot-dress-163483-p

https://www.chichiclothing.com/products/petite-bandeau-sweetheart-floral-wrap-detail-dip-hem-dress-in-navy?_pos=4&_sid=6e0feafb7&_ss=r

context. I am 5 foot 2. Hourglass shaped. Size 10.
do any of these dresses fit the bill? I love the green one at the top of I’m honest

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EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 14:05

Tiltedd · 30/07/2026 01:41

Specifically ‘cocktail / formal no white

https://www.wolfandbadger.com/uk/satin-long-dress-emerald/

https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/yours-london-curve-chocolate-brown-polka-dot-knot-dress-163483-p

https://www.chichiclothing.com/products/petite-bandeau-sweetheart-floral-wrap-detail-dip-hem-dress-in-navy?_pos=4&_sid=6e0feafb7&_ss=r

context. I am 5 foot 2. Hourglass shaped. Size 10.
do any of these dresses fit the bill? I love the green one at the top of I’m honest

Truthfully, I think they all look cheap - including the almost £400 floor-length polyester/viscose satin "gown", which is much too much - & would also swamp you even if altered.

Is £400 your max budget?

TeenLifeMum · 30/07/2026 14:07

The key question is - what’s the dress code?

Black tie - green dress is lovely but if not black tie it looks like you are trying to be a bridesmaid.

where is the wedding? We have a beach wedding in September so my dress choice is very different to if it was a Manor House etc.

EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 14:16

The Reiss one already posted is the best option so far. It's in your size on the Next website. Also comes in bright blue, but somehow looks less suitable/more casual?

Depends on if bright pink is your thing though? What sort of colouring are you OP, & what shades do you like to wear?

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Kirys · 30/07/2026 17:02

What type of venue and event is it? Vintage country barn with barn dance? City centre glitzy hotel with cocktails / band / DJs?
How old are you and how old are the couple getting married?

24Dogcuddler · 30/07/2026 17:15

Have a browse on Zalando. They have a cocktail dress section. Various lengths and styles. Lots of labels reduced.

Just a couple of green ones

https://www.zalando.co.uk/swing-cocktail-dress-party-dress-aloe-green-sg721c0uy-m11.html?size=10

https://www.zalando.co.uk/vila-vishina-midi-dress-maxi-dress-laurel-wreath-v1021c54w-m11.html?size=10

EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 18:01

24Dogcuddler · 30/07/2026 17:15

Have a browse on Zalando. They have a cocktail dress section. Various lengths and styles. Lots of labels reduced.

Just a couple of green ones

https://www.zalando.co.uk/swing-cocktail-dress-party-dress-aloe-green-sg721c0uy-m11.html?size=10

https://www.zalando.co.uk/vila-vishina-midi-dress-maxi-dress-laurel-wreath-v1021c54w-m11.html?size=10

Despite being (yet more) polyester, that second dress from Zalando is far nicer than the dated OTT green one from Wolf & Badger. It's more modern-looking & fits the brief - plus it's one-seventh of the price ...!!!

PhaedraTwo · 30/07/2026 23:14

EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 14:05

Truthfully, I think they all look cheap - including the almost £400 floor-length polyester/viscose satin "gown", which is much too much - & would also swamp you even if altered.

Is £400 your max budget?

Gosh just noticed the green one has a huge split in it. Much too much.

user8695940 · 31/07/2026 03:26

I just had a similar question for an event with a cocktail dress code. I asked about this dress and feedback was mixed. In the end, I had it shortened to basically maxi length and wore it and it was absolutely perfect for the event. I didn't feel either under or overdressed and was very happy with it.

I'm 5'4", hourglass and an 8, so very similar size and shape.

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DreamyLemonSwan · 31/07/2026 09:18

what about something like this?

clubllondon.com/products/francisca-berry-velvet-strappy-volume-hem-midi-dress-cl135425037

Likeiloveyou · 31/07/2026 09:19

I prefer the first one

Kirys · 31/07/2026 09:28

DreamyLemonSwan · 31/07/2026 09:18

That’s a gorgeous dress - but I think September is too early for velvet.

Kirys · 31/07/2026 09:29

user8695940 · 31/07/2026 03:26

I just had a similar question for an event with a cocktail dress code. I asked about this dress and feedback was mixed. In the end, I had it shortened to basically maxi length and wore it and it was absolutely perfect for the event. I didn't feel either under or overdressed and was very happy with it.

I'm 5'4", hourglass and an 8, so very similar size and shape.

Yes I think that ‘cocktail’ is in the hem length - ie anything but full length / maxi

DreamyLemonSwan · 31/07/2026 14:30

Kirys · 31/07/2026 09:28

That’s a gorgeous dress - but I think September is too early for velvet.

Yes, true. It probably is. Lots on Club L that could be suitable though - at a quarter of the price of the Wolf & Badger polyester/viscose dress!

Mulledjuice · 31/07/2026 16:52
  1. those are wildly different colour palettes- what colours actually suit you?
  2. I have been covering the first w&b dress for years but I agree it's not cocktail.

What sort of venue is it? And what time is the ceremony?

Safarisagoody · 31/07/2026 16:59

The first one is the nicest but at 5ft 2 would if not drown you ? I also think it’s not appropriate for fne occasion, it’s more black tie. But the latter two are definitely no gos

Twoshoesnewshoes · 31/07/2026 17:18

The second Zalando one by pp above is really lovely

Samanabanana · 01/08/2026 02:03

Not really a cocktail dress but I wore this to a wedding recently. I am 5'3 with a tummy and this dress was super flattering and felt great for the price. It was floor length on me. I had so many compliments! https://www.omnes.com/products/seychelles-drape-back-detail-dress-in-navy?variant=48535557308640&country=GB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gadsource=1&gadcampaignid=22150855620&gbraid=0AAAAACfElqgZyLNZvOWHD1Fe6SgPQNCWp&gclid=CjwKCAjwj7HTBhBiEiwA8s35OruuKNZxQXdm8DCSp7jcDsIMyx1ywk5AVqrX8I0Fv0KcxaDykzYoBoCMW8QAvDBwE

ETA - I am a size 10 but I sized up to a 12 to avoid clinging to my tummy and it was perfect

FeltCarrot · 01/08/2026 16:32

EleanorMc67 · 30/07/2026 14:16

The Reiss one already posted is the best option so far. It's in your size on the Next website. Also comes in bright blue, but somehow looks less suitable/more casual?

Depends on if bright pink is your thing though? What sort of colouring are you OP, & what shades do you like to wear?

This one is gorgeous!

EleanorMc67 · 02/08/2026 01:56

Twoshoesnewshoes · 31/07/2026 17:18

The second Zalando one by pp above is really lovely

This one? Yes, I like the look of it much more - at least it looks as if it's contemporary. The OP's options, plus several of the others suggested, look dated.

It may of course not be that nice in reality, & is very cheap in price. The back looks a bit odd ...

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Daffodilsinthespring · 02/08/2026 05:57

Middle on is the only suitable for a wedding.

menopausequeen · 02/08/2026 07:36

okaras · 30/07/2026 11:43

All the dresses suggested so far are really not what I think of as a cocktail dress at all! It usually means short/day length, and formal but not evening wear.

These might not be up your street OP, and I've only had the quickest glance at JL, but I honestly think they're closer to the cocktail brief.

https://www.johnlewis.com/jolie-moi-sequin-v-neck-midi-dress-dark-green/p114340549

https://www.johnlewis.com/reiss-irina-fit-and-flare-sleeveless-midi-dress-pink/p115198801

https://www.johnlewis.com/adrianna-papell-mikado-sleeveless-tea-dress-botanic-green/p115013816

https://www.johnlewis.com/adrianna-papell-beaded-shantung-dress-sky-multi/p115227499

I love theee of these suggestions. The pink one is stunning!

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