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Please help me find a dress for my lovely mum

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Dressstressed · 13/07/2026 17:56

She’d like a summer dress that’s perhaps empire line, with short sleeves, and comes below the knee. She’s only 5’1” so anything designed to sit on the knee will be below on her..
She suits purples, pinks, white, some blues, maybe some reds if not orangey. Definitely not dark green, dark yellow, orange, grey or anything drab as it just drains her colouring. She likes pretty, floral, possibly pastel, but can get away with bolder shades too.

She has short grey hair, is 87 but doesn’t look it and dresses young rather than “old lady” style. She is not blessed of bosom and wouldn’t want a belt. She’s slim and petite all over really.

Everything I’ve looked at so far looks drab and dreary and tent like if it’s got sleeves. Or the prints are too big and would swamp her.

She has to wear trainers due to mobility issues and wears white, sparky Skechers.

Budget of no more than £80.

Any suggestion much appreciated!

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MagicalBagPuss · 14/07/2026 22:47

I love "blessed of bosom" 💕

Dressstressed · 15/07/2026 06:40

This is really pretty and I think she’d love it although it’s probably too long. If I can find a seamstress that would come to the house to alter it for her, that might work. I think
this one is my favourite, thank you.

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Dressstressed · 15/07/2026 06:47

Thank you everyone for your suggestions and research efforts. I’m going to show her all the suggestions today when I see her. I think Joe Brown’s might be the winner.

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Candlesflicker · 15/07/2026 10:32

I'm of similar build and height (just under 5ft).

I buy dresses from Blue Diamond garden centres Cerulean range.
My shorter upper body means dresses from most stores have the waist in the wrong position, and the necklines are too low. The dresses are usually much too long, but they fit well on the body, the neckline is in proportion, and the flare on the empire line isn't too voluminous for my height. The fabric is usually a light stretch jersey cotton, so very comfy.
I just take up the hem (either hand-sewing or iron-on hemming web). If occasionally the neckline is a little low, but I otherwise like the dress, I utilise a piece of the cut-off hem to create a little insert into the neckline and sew it in..

MoreThanRubies · 15/07/2026 11:11

Mountain Warehouse (yes, really) “Orchid” dress. Cotton jersey, lots of nice patterns. Pockets! I’m tall but it comes above my knee (i.e. below knee for your mum but not too long) and the “waist” is just under my bust.

BIossomtoes · 15/07/2026 11:20

StylishAndBeautiful · 13/07/2026 22:12

87 is 'old lady', @mydamnfootstuckinthedoor .

Which is exactly why old lady fashion doesn’t work. @mydamnfootstuckinthedoor explained exactly why.

Daisymay2 · 15/07/2026 15:08

Weird Fish is worth a look, I’m 5’4” and many of their summer dresses are above my knees, although a lot shorter on the models. Body is right as well- ie the waist is in the right place.

mydamnfootstuckinthedoor · 15/07/2026 18:32

Well yes, you are right. Still, do we have to lean in to the cliché?

StylishAndBeautiful · 15/07/2026 20:08

@BIossomtoes , I think it does if it's used (or reworded) as elderly lady.
A dress for an elderly lady to me means a dress for a woman who happens to be of advanced years.

'Old lady' as an insult is dreadful. Most women want to look presentable, regardless of whether they are 20 or 80.

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StylishAndBeautiful · 15/07/2026 20:41

Small boutiques are often good but prices might be higher than £90.

Gudrunista · 16/07/2026 02:03

GLOBALBEES · 13/07/2026 19:33

They are made for giants

I’m 5’ 3”. My clothes come from Gudrun Sjödén, plus Seasalt and M&S. GS things are not too long for me.

I buy their tops, tunics, cardigans, coats and dresses, though, not trousers.

It’s the end of the sale now, so most things are reasonably priced but frequently go in and out of stock. They have a shop in Covent Garden.

Dressstressed · 16/07/2026 07:05

Thank you all. She’s gone for the Joe Browns one and also an M&S one from Vinted.

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EvelynBeatrice · 16/07/2026 07:08

Try Blue Vanilla, Apricot, Crew Clothing. Even search Next filtering by petites.

BuddhaAtSea · 16/07/2026 08:05

My mother is 80 and wouldn’t be seen dead in SeaSalt. She’s not quite 5 foot my mum, and no boobs.
I got her a kaftan, it’s a bit short for people my height(5.8), above the knee line, but it sits just below on her. I offered to take it in at the hem for her, but she quite likes it where it sits, but her legs aren’t short (proportionally).

StylishAndBeautiful · 16/07/2026 15:18

@BuddhaAtSea , My mother is 80 and wouldn’t be seen dead in SeaSalt.
This type of post actually makes me more inclined to look at SeaSalt.

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