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A stylish person you once saw who you can't forget

182 replies

iCod · 26/05/2026 20:04

Me, Southwest West France about 1979
We were still agog by topless women, but there was this one woman who had a gold chain around her tiny waist and she looked brilliant and I just thought today she must be dead by now
Who do you remember seeing that made an impact?

OP posts:
meltingmoaner · Yesterday 20:28

I just assumed they were “old” then but older now 😆

Tinytwinle · Yesterday 20:33

Everytime i look in the mirror i think bitch you look good, others may have style but you are stylish, they may look stylish but bitch you own it.
Morning prep talk over.

I look like a hag half rat half human ish.

Everyone has style just in their own way.

meltingmoaner · Yesterday 20:35

Getting back to the OP, there was a girl in the yr above me at 6th form & she was always so well put together. Everything looked good on here, she was just naturally stylish.

mixedpeel · Yesterday 20:37

Another train station one, but only a few weeks ago. I’d guess she was late 70s, baggy cuffed trousers in dark grey, green fitted tailored jacket, grey trainers and a straw-coloured trilby. I don’t have the descriptive power of other posters on this thread to put across how fab she looked, but she’s who I thought of as soon as I saw the thread title.

Borka · Yesterday 20:38

Puppylucky · Yesterday 19:54

To be fair most of them probably weren't British! No shade but London is a multicultural city

So boring, the idea that British people can never be stylish

ThisJadeBear · Yesterday 20:40

iCod · 26/05/2026 20:04

Me, Southwest West France about 1979
We were still agog by topless women, but there was this one woman who had a gold chain around her tiny waist and she looked brilliant and I just thought today she must be dead by now
Who do you remember seeing that made an impact?

South of France 1981. Beach full of topless women. Including many women with hairy armpits and pubes on show.
Every day a girl of about 19 used to walk along the shore in a full piece black suit with a gold chain belt.
She had a bob.
And everyone on the beach used to admire her.
A lesson in subtle chic.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · Yesterday 20:42

I used to pass a girl on the way to work who always wore variations on black trousers and a black top. Many different cuts of trousers, all sorts of different tops. The blacks always matched. Very, very occasionally a very sharp white shirt, with or without sleeves.

She always had some kind of minimal accessories - studs or hooped earrings - gold or diamond. A bright neck scarf. Bangles. Never much, always something.

She always wore ballet flats, slightly chunky, and quality - Moda in Pelle type, rather than New Look type - and they were usually bright colours, I’m not sure I ever saw her in black shoes.

Very classic beige trench coat. Burberry type. Hell, probably was Burberry.

Always lipstick, usually red. She had a perfect bob, just below ear length and natural coloured looking dark brown hair.

This was about 25 years ago. She was about my age, maybe a bit older - so 30ish then.

thedevilinablackdress · Yesterday 20:43

I love seeing anyone who's really made an effort with their look in an unique or unusual way. It can often be young people being experimental, but the best are older people who've the experience, knowledge and confidence that only time can bring

FleurDeFleur · Yesterday 20:46

Puppylucky · Yesterday 19:54

To be fair most of them probably weren't British! No shade but London is a multicultural city

No shade?
Well unless she checked their passports, she had no way of telling.

Namingbaba · Yesterday 20:52

Sitting in a train station in Spain. It could have been Madrid but not 100% sure as I travelled around on train to quite a few places. I'm sitting waiting on my train going and looking out the window. This other train disembarks and there were so many well dressed people on it. I remember one woman walking past with a cloche hat and long coat that look tailored.

OnlyFrench · Yesterday 20:52

@Whattingeri was in Lucca nine years ago during an incredible heatwave. I had to walk the dog early and was fascinated every morning by the elderly people in bright Lycra sportswear power walking around the town walls

lizzielizard · Yesterday 21:00

NeverDropYourMooncup · Yesterday 00:23

Literally everything about her, her appearance, her behaviour, her attitude towards children, her home, her education, all of it was the complete opposite to my mother (apart from height).

I probably didn't help by talking about her so much, either - 4-7 year olds aren't known for tact and I'm sure that 'Mrs Watts has little cups with flowers on and a saucer', 'Mrs Watts says there's no such word as 'can't' and I just haven't learned to do it yet', 'Mrs Watts listens to nice music with piano, can we listen to that in the morning instead of your music, she says it's Radio 3 and I really like it', 'Mrs Watts' house is really clean and smells nice, she says maybe I could help you' must have grated somewhat.

I so want to know more about Mrs Watts. I love her already.

bookbun · Yesterday 21:07

Calliopespa · Yesterday 19:47

That gunmetal slash-neck dress with the subtle sheen at the wedding mentioned above was eerily like an Armani one I wore to a few weddings but luckily the hat description came along (and didn't fit!) before I could get any delusions!

But what I find really lovely about this thread is that a huge proportion of the people mentioned are older ladies. There's hope for us all! It is just a nice contrast to the feeling that at 40 you are kind of past your best ...

Same, also no hat and my dress was a silk number from jigsaw. Wish it still fitted ):

Calliopespa · Yesterday 21:08

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · Yesterday 20:42

I used to pass a girl on the way to work who always wore variations on black trousers and a black top. Many different cuts of trousers, all sorts of different tops. The blacks always matched. Very, very occasionally a very sharp white shirt, with or without sleeves.

She always had some kind of minimal accessories - studs or hooped earrings - gold or diamond. A bright neck scarf. Bangles. Never much, always something.

She always wore ballet flats, slightly chunky, and quality - Moda in Pelle type, rather than New Look type - and they were usually bright colours, I’m not sure I ever saw her in black shoes.

Very classic beige trench coat. Burberry type. Hell, probably was Burberry.

Always lipstick, usually red. She had a perfect bob, just below ear length and natural coloured looking dark brown hair.

This was about 25 years ago. She was about my age, maybe a bit older - so 30ish then.

Audrey Hepburn?!

Illegally18 · Yesterday 21:19

NeverDropYourMooncup · 26/05/2026 21:20

Mrs Watts used to run the other Brownie unit and would come into the infant school to help children learn to embroider. She was expert in polite conversation, invited groups of children to her house for tea where they'd learn to sit at a table, make tea in a bone china pot, use the nicest cutlery and cups, nibble at arrowroot biscuits whilst Bach or suchlike was playing in the background and at the first hint of a child's sadness or thinking they could fail, would always answer with a suitably encouraging reply. When I was slumping around the place, she decided that today would be the day that we learned how to stand and walk like graceful dancers (and brought out some slim hardback books from her full bookcase for us to balance on our heads). She promised that she'd teach me a little bit of ballet and gave me a book showing the positions and terms when I was clearly the most enthusiastic about this.

She was small, probably around 5 foot tall, wore cream and beige clothes, a dark polo neck jumper in winter, wrap cardigans in spring and autumn, all looking immaculate, a perfect fine gold chain around her neck, a narrow gold watch, slim gold rimmed glasses with a slight cats eye that suited her perfectly, carried a dark brown leather handbag and had the most perfect, pure white bob, glowing skin with the faintest smattering of pale gold freckles on her cheeks, along with perfectly cool toned lipstick, neat eyebrows and long, dark eyelashes. She wore a gold wedding ring and a diamond solitaire on elegant hands (with the slightest hint of swelling in the knuckles) and perfectly neat, oval nails with pale pink varnish on them.

She would glide effortlessly from classroom to activity area, leaving a faint scent of flowers wherever she went and never seemed flustered or impatient or raised her voice, but would smile, revealing perfect white teeth as the skin around her green eyes crinkled slightly.

I thought she was amazing (hence why I was able to remember so much about her appearance, as I was fascinated by her) and like nobody else I'd ever met.

My mother despised her with every fibre of her being.

I always thought that if my hair went white, I'd try and look like Mrs Watts. Sadly, I doubt that even with white hair, I'd ever be as lovely and elegant as Mrs Watts.

I'm curious to know why your mother disliked Mrs Watts so. Do you have any idea?

OnlyFrench · Yesterday 21:22

JulietteHasAGun · Yesterday 07:47

Was in the village chemist years ago, looking a scruffy state in my dog walking clothes. A man came in who was a total vision. He was the spitting image of Brad Pitt in Oceans Eleven in an exquisitely tailored pale grey suit.

I think my jaw literally dropped open. He opened his mouth and spoke in an American accent to ask for directions to the nearest doctors. He was given directions and left, I craned my neck to watch him as he walked to his car, silver sports car and he drove off.

I am convinced Brad Pitt was in my village pharmacy. And he was beautiful. This was 15 years ago, maybe more. I still think about him often.

I live next to a small French town of about 1000 people. My hairdresser was amazed to see a Jude Law lookalike in the local park. Turned out it really was him, his parents apparently had a house not far away.

breastcancerpanic · Yesterday 21:32

FleurDeFleur · Yesterday 20:46

No shade?
Well unless she checked their passports, she had no way of telling.

Agreed!
Multicultural describes a society, community, or environment that includes and celebrates people from multiple distinct ethnic, racial, or cultural backgrounds.
I saw people of many different ethnicities and from many different cultures (as far as I can tell) - many of whom may have been British. I am mixed race myself, and yet British born and bred (though sadly, not a style icon). Lots of people I work with were born overseas, some weren't, and there are lots to admire from both groups. London - like lots of other places in the UK - is pretty incredibly cool, and is full of people worth staring at!

thedevilinablackdress · Yesterday 21:42

Illegally18 · Yesterday 21:19

I'm curious to know why your mother disliked Mrs Watts so. Do you have any idea?

Poster answered that on page 1 of the thread

Awfulinlaws · Yesterday 21:49

A woman at the Eurostar terminal in Brussels. Tailored grey shift dress, simple but perfectly tailored to her. Beautiful accessories, simple makeup, long hair in a simple up do. It was all so simple, but well done.

waffleyversatile1 · Yesterday 21:57

Chamb · Yesterday 07:57

Anyone else reading this in the deluded hope they'll read a description of themselves?😂

I would die happy if I was 🤣🤣

FleurDeFleur · Yesterday 22:06

breastcancerpanic · Yesterday 21:32

Agreed!
Multicultural describes a society, community, or environment that includes and celebrates people from multiple distinct ethnic, racial, or cultural backgrounds.
I saw people of many different ethnicities and from many different cultures (as far as I can tell) - many of whom may have been British. I am mixed race myself, and yet British born and bred (though sadly, not a style icon). Lots of people I work with were born overseas, some weren't, and there are lots to admire from both groups. London - like lots of other places in the UK - is pretty incredibly cool, and is full of people worth staring at!

Absolutely! Wonderfully diverse. Difficult to know who is British and who is not, at a glance.

DisrobeDatrobe · Yesterday 22:16

Just joining for style inspiration!

If I notice anyone stylish I tend to fixate on one garment rather than remembering the whole ensemble.

Serenity45 · Yesterday 22:42

Edinburgh 2003 - a very good looking guy in his early 20s wearing a 'proper' knee length kilt with a chunky ecru roll neck jumper, ecru knee length knitted socks and brown ankle boots. He just wore it so well and had a great walk! Plus he didn't give the impression that he loved himself, just a cool confident vibe

Somethingsnapped · Yesterday 22:44

I've seen so many...I always notice stylish people. But the one that sprang to mind was the very first time I properly noticed someone’s style, and the impact it had on my young and impressionable mind.

I was a young teenager, on a school trip to Germany, and I saw a young woman working in a bead shop. I only saw her top half because she was sitting behind a counter, but she had a very relaxed indie kind of vibe. She was wearing a loose strappy white vest top layered over a black one, layered funky jewellery, and messy hair. She just looked so effortlessly cool and confident to my teenage eyes, and quirky and alternative. I think that was the first time I realised how creative and expressive it was possible to be with style/appearance. I just wanted to be her. 35 years later, and I still remember her. Proper girl crush.

Kittylickingplate · Today 04:04

EconomyClassRockstar · Yesterday 00:47

A woman in Biarritz who was at least 80 but could have been 100 for all I know. She had the most beautiful grey haired chignon, was tiny and her posture was that of a ballerina. I can't even remember what she was wearing but I just remember thinking she looked fantastic. I was carrying my 7 week old while DH was slightly ahead with our 14 month old, 3 year old and 5 year old and she turned to me and said something in French that I didn't quite grasp and then said, "You are a very blessed woman" with this gorgeous French accent. Not only did she look fantastic, she apparently knew the thing I needed to hear that day and I've never forgotten her 21 years later.

Oh God, floods of tears reading that!!!