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Am I too old for this bikini?

53 replies

24kPalamino · 20/03/2026 22:12

I really love this bikini. I’ve been on mounjaro.
Gotten down to a size 8 and I’ve been really fortunate not to have excessive loose skin. My tummy is a little crinkled around the belly button though. I don’t have much of a chest anymore. I’m 46. I do have a tan skin which I think helps with the skin texture a bit.

What do you think? I really don’t want to wear a similar style to my mum yet 😂 and hate patterns. My husband says buy whatever I like, but I’m so hesitant, despite loving it.

Am I too old for this bikini?
OP posts:
franklymydearscarlett · 21/03/2026 02:30

I think this style needs a really pert chest. For that reason I would have worn it pre kids no question but wouldn’t go near it now.

LaurieFairyCake · 21/03/2026 06:08

Not possible to be too old for it Flowers remember Helen Mirren in that red bikini !

Mulledjuice · 21/03/2026 06:19

DoloresDelEriba · 20/03/2026 23:01

Of course it is 🙄

How do I tell if I'm too old for my bikini if the age isn't on the label?

Longtallsally777 · 21/03/2026 06:30

I think it’s fab and definitely you’re not too old! The support would be a factor for me but if the boobs can handle it, then go for it! Make your husband’s jaw drop 🤣😉🙌🏼

StarlightLady · 21/03/2026 06:39

I’m a similar age to you OP, l’d wear the bottoms but not the top. I don’t think the almost level straight across bit (sorry clumsy language) works.

l’d also want adjustable straps.

shamefulbehaviour · 21/03/2026 07:20

No, you are NOT too old op! What is “too old” for a bikini? I once read a quote which said….
”How to get a bikini body. Buy a bikini, put your body in it. Job done”.
No one cares (and if they do, that is a them problem!) and if you feel good in it, go for it. I’m older than you and I still wear bikinis, no fucks given!

Doggymummar · 21/03/2026 07:44

I only wea4 a bikini to tan, so that's too much coverage for me, bu5 if your a swimmer or play sport, whatever other people do in one I think it's lovely and there's no age limit.

24kPalamino · 21/03/2026 08:49

Doggymummar · 21/03/2026 07:44

I only wea4 a bikini to tan, so that's too much coverage for me, bu5 if your a swimmer or play sport, whatever other people do in one I think it's lovely and there's no age limit.

I paddle board, so I like something a bit sporty. I take my paddle board everywhere, even on holidays abroad, so I do shop with this in mind. Probably should have said that in my original post lol.

OP posts:
StarlightLady · 21/03/2026 08:55

24kPalamino · 21/03/2026 08:49

I paddle board, so I like something a bit sporty. I take my paddle board everywhere, even on holidays abroad, so I do shop with this in mind. Probably should have said that in my original post lol.

To add to my earlier comments, it sounds like you rock OP ❤️. So go for it or similar. As l said earlier l’m a similar age and on some beaches, when l can, l still go without the top!

I’m a strong swimmer but l wish l could stand up on a paddle board though. I envy you.

24kPalamino · 21/03/2026 09:23

StarlightLady · 21/03/2026 08:55

To add to my earlier comments, it sounds like you rock OP ❤️. So go for it or similar. As l said earlier l’m a similar age and on some beaches, when l can, l still go without the top!

I’m a strong swimmer but l wish l could stand up on a paddle board though. I envy you.

I bet you could!! It just takes a bit of practice.
I wish when sunbathing I could go without the top! But my boobs look like I cut the toes off a pair of socks and glued them to my chest 😂

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Soufriere · 21/03/2026 09:28

I’ve just been on holiday, so lots of people watching. I’m tall and slim and at 53, think I’m too old to wear a bikini. I don’t know why I put this restriction on myself as believe me, there were women of all shapes and ages wearing them - and good for them.

Diosmonet · 21/03/2026 09:31

DoloresDelEriba · 20/03/2026 23:01

Of course it is 🙄

It really really isn't. I live in a mediterranean country and women well into their 80's wear bikinis.

Your comment is ageist and sexist.

StarlightLady · 21/03/2026 09:32

Soufriere · 21/03/2026 09:28

I’ve just been on holiday, so lots of people watching. I’m tall and slim and at 53, think I’m too old to wear a bikini. I don’t know why I put this restriction on myself as believe me, there were women of all shapes and ages wearing them - and good for them.

Next time, join them ❤️. People come in all shapes and sizes be they naked, fully clothed or in swimwear, the size and shape remains the same.

Diosmonet · 21/03/2026 09:38

Soufriere · 21/03/2026 09:28

I’ve just been on holiday, so lots of people watching. I’m tall and slim and at 53, think I’m too old to wear a bikini. I don’t know why I put this restriction on myself as believe me, there were women of all shapes and ages wearing them - and good for them.

Buy the bikini!! In fact by 3!!

I cannot bear this too old for... bullshit! It is simply another way to belittle women, particularly older women.

I have am 52, have long swishy hair and wear bikinis. I don't intend on changing that either.

Labelledelune · 21/03/2026 11:58

Of course you can wear it. You’re a size 8 you can wear anything.

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 23/03/2026 12:23

DoloresDelEriba · 20/03/2026 23:01

Of course it is 🙄

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

don't be so ridiculous.

ChickpeaCauliflowerSalad · 23/03/2026 12:26

Soufriere · 21/03/2026 09:28

I’ve just been on holiday, so lots of people watching. I’m tall and slim and at 53, think I’m too old to wear a bikini. I don’t know why I put this restriction on myself as believe me, there were women of all shapes and ages wearing them - and good for them.

Don't know why you do either. Why don't you just decide not to put that restriction on yourself?

tall & slim, I'd wear one to tesco
🤣

Substance · 23/03/2026 14:23

I'm sure this thread is a product placement, sorry.

mondaytosunday · 23/03/2026 14:28

If you’ve got the body for it then it’s perfect.

Starbri8 · 23/03/2026 14:41

Hi Op, I have a very similar bikini, I’m 47 size 8 and about a C Cup , it’s a good fit but the top is tiny, as a previous poster said avoid if smaller than an A cup. If it comes as separates I’d size up for the top. Congrats on the weight loss , treat yourself to lots of nice bikinis !! ❤️

mrsCtheRed · 23/03/2026 14:44

Its a lovely bikini, glad to see that you've ordered it, and I'm sure you'll look fab 🤩

Zuma76 · 23/03/2026 14:45

DoloresDelEriba · 20/03/2026 23:01

Of course it is 🙄

Since when.

Starbri8 · 23/03/2026 14:47

Many years ago on a beach in Spain an older German lady in her 70’s sauntered past us in a tiny black bikini and floppy hat , she oozed confidence ! She looked fabulous and knew it ! My husband who would never dream of commenting on bikinis and is quite shy said that is probably the most attractive women on this beech !! I gave him a dig but couldn’t disagree !

Zuma76 · 23/03/2026 14:47

Soufriere · 21/03/2026 09:28

I’ve just been on holiday, so lots of people watching. I’m tall and slim and at 53, think I’m too old to wear a bikini. I don’t know why I put this restriction on myself as believe me, there were women of all shapes and ages wearing them - and good for them.

You can decide what you feel comfortable wearing but that isn’t generic to all people your age surely