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What to wear as a teaching assistant

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Rainbowmum32 · 22/02/2026 19:49

I’m a TA in primary, my work wardrobe needs updating any suggestions?
we aren’t allowed to wear trainers

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Pearlstillsinging · 24/02/2026 09:30

Something washable!
And comfortable in all situations, bending, kneeling, sitting on the floor/low chairs. As pp said, check cleavage coverage and definitely nothing see through.
I once worked with a teacher who wore a short-skirted black suit with a see through white shirt and a black bra under it. She looked completely unprofessional.

MrsEmmelineLucas · 24/02/2026 09:31

Pearlstillsinging · 24/02/2026 09:30

Something washable!
And comfortable in all situations, bending, kneeling, sitting on the floor/low chairs. As pp said, check cleavage coverage and definitely nothing see through.
I once worked with a teacher who wore a short-skirted black suit with a see through white shirt and a black bra under it. She looked completely unprofessional.

I'm surprised she wasn't spoken to.

JudgeJ · 24/02/2026 13:35

MrsEmmelineLucas · 24/02/2026 09:31

I'm surprised she wasn't spoken to.

In my experience, many years ago though, if a Head spoke to a female teacher about her dress standards all hell would break loose! An art teacher wore what could only be described as clubbing gear, bare midriff, very low cut tops, micro skirts but when someone had a quiet word with her a large percentage of the other women went ballistic!

katepilar · 24/02/2026 13:35

PadamPadamPDoom · 22/02/2026 21:26

I’m afraid I wouldn’t want to see TAs or teachers wearing dresses over leggings as it’s not a dressing style I would want to set before small children.

You could probably find absolutely everything you want at Uniqlo.

Or Community Clothing, if you have more to spend.

Dress over legging is perfectly fine. Your fashion sense isnt relevant.

MrsEmmelineLucas · 24/02/2026 13:37

JudgeJ · 24/02/2026 13:35

In my experience, many years ago though, if a Head spoke to a female teacher about her dress standards all hell would break loose! An art teacher wore what could only be described as clubbing gear, bare midriff, very low cut tops, micro skirts but when someone had a quiet word with her a large percentage of the other women went ballistic!

In what way did they go "ballistic"? Surely that's against professional conduct.
Yes, HT and other members of SLT do speak to staff if they break the dress code, appear inappropriately dressed or otherwise don't meet the standards.
That's the way it is. Everyone knows what the code is.

JudgeJ · 24/02/2026 13:44

MrsEmmelineLucas · 24/02/2026 13:37

In what way did they go "ballistic"? Surely that's against professional conduct.
Yes, HT and other members of SLT do speak to staff if they break the dress code, appear inappropriately dressed or otherwise don't meet the standards.
That's the way it is. Everyone knows what the code is.

I did preface my words with 'many years ago' when dress codes were not expressed in specific terms but the men were expected to wear a jacket, shirt and tie and the Head, who had a cooling fan in his office, wouldn't let them remove their ties, though jackets off was allowed in classrooms but not on the corridors! The women accused him of 'blatant sexism' by speaking to this teacher about her clothing choices and the Union got involved, women like me, who didn't back them up, were also given a rough ride. As the saying goes The past is a foreign country!

MrsEmmelineLucas · 24/02/2026 13:46

JudgeJ · 24/02/2026 13:44

I did preface my words with 'many years ago' when dress codes were not expressed in specific terms but the men were expected to wear a jacket, shirt and tie and the Head, who had a cooling fan in his office, wouldn't let them remove their ties, though jackets off was allowed in classrooms but not on the corridors! The women accused him of 'blatant sexism' by speaking to this teacher about her clothing choices and the Union got involved, women like me, who didn't back them up, were also given a rough ride. As the saying goes The past is a foreign country!

Right. A slightly different story, then.
Yes, it's all very different now.

Isometimeswonder · 24/02/2026 15:07

AwkwardPaws27 · 22/02/2026 21:15

Be very aware of cleavage - test everything by bending over in front of a mirror first - I work in a primary school (office) and its amazing how much workwear looks appropriate until you bend over at kid-heightConfused

I was told at college you shouldn't wear anything you can see up, see down or see through!

TheGoddessAthena · 24/02/2026 15:40

It's all about practicality, surely. Clothes which are not dry clean only and can stand up to repeated washing. Things that you aren't devastated about if you spill paint on them, or if a child throws up or something. Clothes which clover arse and boobs. I wouldn't be spending lots of money and would be sticking to basics from supermarkets, Primark, M&S at a push. Work clothes as a "uniform".

ChillingWithMySnowmies · 24/02/2026 18:51

when i was actively working as a TA, my go-to was either black vest or t-shirt & jersey type trousers with a more colourful shirt over the top (left open), and ankle boots.

Or i was in a dress over leggings with a cardi or shirt on over it, and ankle boots.

The kids don't give a shit how you dress, just make sure it's comfortable, practical, easy to move in, not going to flash anyone if you bend over or have to get on the floor, and is easily washable and not expensive.

Depending on the age of kids you'll invariably get covered in paint/pen/snot/sick/dirt, and be vaguely sticky at some point.

Pearlstillsinging · 24/02/2026 20:05

PadamPadamPDoom · 23/02/2026 09:34

@OneNewEagle - what is all this covering up? I don’t get it. (Assuming one is talking about UK schools?) No child is going to expire from shock if they catch a glimpse of your knee or chest, surely.

Obviously clothes need to be practical, to suit the environment, but I’d have thought there were other priorities ahead of concealing every bit of human skin from a child’s gaze?

It's not knees or chests that need to be covered but knickers and bras! Some younger TAs seem to think that leggings no thicker than tights and a short jumper are appropriate to wear at work. They are not.

HazeyjaneIII · 24/02/2026 21:37

Wow. This thread.
Leggings and dress is fine... and will in no way affect the mental health of the poor children having to suffer these dowdy TAs.
Dress how you want as long as it is comfortable, practical, majes you happy and is within school policy... oh and if you can afford it on the shit wages.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 24/02/2026 23:04

PadamPadamPDoom · 23/02/2026 05:51

It’s just such an ugly look - and far too often (noticeably on S&B) the last resort of women who for one reason or another don’t believe they deserve nice clothes. So I guess I associate it with misery and self-hatred.

That's odd, because I associate it with women who respect themselves enough to want to have warm legs without the itchy, thrush-inducing, ladder-prone, Satan-created torture known as "tights".

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 24/02/2026 23:06

Njbnnn · 23/02/2026 06:52

These trousers look really smart, and the elasticated waist makes them unbelievably comfortable. I usually wear them with smart jumpers from Vinted — mostly Reiss or Mint Velvet — and I’m going to buy some plain long‑sleeve tops once the weather warms up.

www.whistles.com/product/tessa-casual-trouser-34196.html

Those trousers look like the wearer went shopping in the children's section and considers Charlie Chaplin and Bill and Ben to be style icons. They are too short by far and the pockets look like the wearer works on a building site, not in a school.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 24/02/2026 23:19

Justsomethoughts23 · 23/02/2026 12:10

I’m not a teacher but meeting the brief of conservative and comfortable, I’d probably go for some kind of wide legged cropped or full length trousers (could be elasticated at the back of the waist) with a slim fitting round neck knit tucked in, ideally merino but probably something easier to launder. Maybe a knit polo top in summer. And probably loafers, or smart trainers if allowed. In winter maybe a stretchy knit midi dress and tights? That’s the kind of thing I wore to crawl around with (my) young children. I don’t like the dress and leggings thing but the particular dress linked is also actually quite short, quite low cut and a garish pattern so rewearing frequently would be very obvious - again I’m not a teacher but can’t see how that’s the best option.

wide legged cropped or full length trousers

Having caught my toe in the opposite trouser hem at a gig and:

  • caused over £100 of damage to my instrument despite trying to protect it during the consequent fall;
  • injured myself in a way that took three months to heal, in part because I was trying to protect my instrument by putting the affected limb between it and the floor;

do notwear wide legged trousers in an environment where your mind will not be 100% on what your feet are doing.

LemograssLollipop · 25/02/2026 00:48

Nothing that looks like you are going to a festival.
No cropped tshirts with thin cheap see through leggings.
No slouchy granny jumpers or cardigans hanging off the elbows.
Look like you are going to a place of work!
I despair at the attire of some of my kids teachers. (esp Miss J)....... they look like Bridget Jones on another solo birthday (though thankfully without a wine glass on school premises)

Tiggy321 · 25/02/2026 02:47

I am amazed there is a dress code. I work in an international school and anything goes. Most of us wear jeans and trainers as running is important (special ed) and invariably get covered in some bodily fluid, food etc!. I notice teachers in high school dress smarter. We have so many themed dress up days it is exhausting to keep up with. A lot of people wear school branded sweatshirts etc.

grooveraidiator · 25/02/2026 08:31

My school is very chilled - trainers are ok everyday and leggings on PE days. Just no bra straps or too short things.

I tend to wear a uniform of dark, cheap polyester trousers that take a battering, nicer quality knitwear jumpers (roll necks and round neck button up cardigan with a sleeveless top underneath) and striped cotton shirts tucked in in warmer weather. Stuff that hides stains and is capable of lots of laundering.

I do like a nice necklace 😂 and wear trainers for comfort.

HazeyjaneIII · 26/02/2026 06:43

Well I'm getting ready for work now and in my day I will be...
Sitting on a teeny tiny chair, crawling around doing OT exercises, painting, probably helping an 'intimate care' situation, trudging around a field of long wet grass, washing up in a roasting hot kitchen, out on the playground (in any weather... possibly quickly pulling on waterproofs if its wet/muddy), probably on my knees dealing with a bloody knee and many many other completely unpredictable events.
I am wearing leggings, a short dress and dms (trainers on pe days) as I find it generally suits all these things.
Merino jumpers and £100 barrel trousers aren't going to hack it (and I can't afford them!)

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