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Is it common for beauty practitioners to become complacent with regular clients?

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Raingoawayplsplspls · 14/02/2026 13:25

I need to go for a specific type of facial that requires the practitioner to work in detail on different areas. When I first found my current practitioner, about three years ago, I was delighted with her as she did an incredibly thorough job. About a year ago, I started suspecting that she might be putting less effort in (leaving me under steam/mask/lights longer and spending less time doing the "work"), but after the last two times I've become absolutely certain that this is the case.

I had the same experience with a manicurist; brilliantly detailed work to begin with but then she started getting less attentive when I became a regular customer.

They haven't lowered their prices (in fact, they've increased them, which is fine by me - I know there's a CoL crisis) nor do I get any perks from being a long-term client. I also always tip around 15%. So the only reason I can think they're starting to slack is complacency.

Of course, I know it's not everyone - I've had the same hair stylist for 15 years and he never falls short - but I'm wondering if this is a "thing" in the beauty industry? And how does one make sure a high standard is maintained without going into nagging/difficult customer territory?

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Dinnaeeatallthecheese · 14/02/2026 13:29

I found this
My hour long massage was 45 minutes door to door including getting undressed and dressed plus paying
They started telling me stuff about the business, moaning about the costs
I went elsewhere

GreaterCassowary · 14/02/2026 13:30

Yes, it's a problem I've had many times, with hairdressers in particular. I switched hairdresser last year after finally losing patience with my last one. She started off great but over the years just seemed to stop paying as much attention and I got fed up of leaving with chunky highlights when I was being charged for balayage. I've had it with physiotherapists too. They start out great then, as time goes by, spend more time standing around chatting (to me) instead of actually working on the treatment I'd paid for.

Raingoawayplsplspls · 14/02/2026 13:38

OK, so it's not just me!

I'm sure some MNers will tell me I'm a doormat and need to stand up for myself, but I'm not exactly going to enjoy a beauty treatment if it's spent correcting or questioning their work. If it's one or two details, fine, but not to the extent I'd need to in these situations.

While the relationship and experience are secondary to the actual treatment (at least for me), they're still very much part of it, and it's no fun if I have to explain and justify why I'm unhappy with xyz.

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Violetparis · 14/02/2026 13:39

Agree with GreaterCassowary. Said exactly the same about my hairdresser this week. She didn't even sit me down in front of the mirror when I went in to check how much I wanted cut off and didn't show me the back when finished. She spent the whole time chatting about crap, and I came home to find loads of longer bits at the back which she missed because she didn't check the underneath properly. Won't be going back, I'm not there for social reasons.

BarbaraKirksKaftan · 14/02/2026 16:00

I have found this with hairdressers. I really liked my hairdresser and had been going to him for years but the last few times it didn’t feel I was getting his best work so I have moved on. I’m a bit sad about it though.

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