Hey OP, I have experimented with retinol and tret in the past and get to be convinced of their efficacy. The best my skin looks and feels is when I treat it ‘kindly’ if you get what I mean. I think a good, well considered night routine is especially important.
I first use a balm cleanser and do a facial massage while removing my makeup. I’m enjoying Estée Lauder’s Advanced Night Repair cleansing balm at the moment.
Every other day I’ll use a glycolic acid to remove any dead skin, just a bog standard one by The Ordinary or Pixi will do.
I then fill the palm of my hand with a milky toner, Byoma, Rhode or Haruharu Wonder are all brilliant. This creates a sort of wet canvas for serum and moisturiser. It’s really important to apply far more than you think you need! And do not rub it off with cotton wool let it sit on your face and apply the rest of your routine over the top.
I must have tried hundreds of creams and potions over the years across all price points. I always come back to either Estée Lauder ANP or Clarins Double Serum for my main serum/treatment. I know people debate the efficacy/ingredients/price of these products but my skin never looks better than when I use them. For moisturiser, I’ve been using L’Occitane Immortelle Divine (the one in the yellow pot) since my ‘20s. I don’t know what it is about this moisturiser. It has a mythic quality to it for me! There is something about it that my skin absolutely loves. I have others that I return to when I want something more affordable, but it really cannot be beaten. I wake up with perfect skin every day from that routine, great tone, texture etc.
So overall, I’d say treat your skin with care and focus on hydration, comfort and lean on the big beauty houses and well established products if your budget allows.
If you are looking for something new to try, you could look to Korean skincare (brands like Medicube creams and VT cosmetics Reedle shots). Just Google PDRM, exosomes and spicules which is the skin tech du joer. Too cutting edge for me personally. I CBA with any more experimentation but these are the things exciting the skincare community at the moment. All the best.