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Which tote bag do I want for Christmas?

90 replies

NotGalinda · 15/11/2025 17:03

I fancy getting a tote bag that I can get my laptop and various work bits in, and move away from my rubbish (but roomy) rucksack and small handbag combination. I've seen these ones, and wondered and quality etc. Advice or alternatives welcome

https://www.johnlewis.com/lauren-ralph-lauren-karly-crosshatch-leather-large-tote-bag/p110505839

https://www.johnlewis.com/radley-oak-street-leather-tote-bag/saddle/p112115404

https://www.aspinaloflondon.com/products/the-hudson-tote-in-tan-milled-pebble?objectID=13106&queryID=9e1cd1397379ec9d685da489e7167e4a

https://demellierlondon.com/products/the-tokyo-tote-burgundy-suede-burgundy-smooth

I don't want suede, as I'm not sure it stays looking nice. And not keen on black as I as wear a lot of brown and navy.

Lauren Ralph Lauren Karly Crosshatch Leather Large Tote Bag

Buy Lauren Ralph Lauren Karly Crosshatch Leather Large Tote Bag from our Handbags, Bags & Purses range at John Lewis & Partners. Free Delivery on orders over £70.

https://www.johnlewis.com/lauren-ralph-lauren-karly-crosshatch-leather-large-tote-bag/p110505839

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Lakeyloo · 17/11/2025 15:08

Nightlight8 · 17/11/2025 11:29

@Lakeyloo can I ask which coach bags you have please. I've been thinking of getting a Coach gallery Tote in black and walnut for work.

@Nightlight8 it's this one but I've had it for 10 + years and i don't think they make them anymore. This was the only link i could find with a picture. Very similar to the Gallery but it has the long strap which is really handy.
Amazon.com: Coach Pebbled Leather Tyler Tote Purse - #F54687 : Clothing, Shoes & Jewelry

Amazon.com

Amazon.com

https://www.amazon.com/Coach-Pebbled-Leather-Tyler-Purse/dp/B01N4AC6HX?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-style-and-beauty-5444754-which-tote-bag-do-i-want-for-christmas

Nightlight8 · 17/11/2025 15:33

Thank you. I'm after this bag.

Which tote bag do I want for Christmas?
KatieLou16 · 17/11/2025 17:17

I'd get a TFY bag (totes for you) it's got a compartment for everything you can think off and still have plenty of room for more things. They are on Instagram or if you find them on Google. They come in some beautiful colours 😍

Maerchentante · 17/11/2025 17:19

I bought this bag about three or four years ago:

https://www.johnlewis.com/coach-willow-leather-tote-bag/p5235882

Works really well for work, can take A4 (that was the main criteria) and can also take my work laptop, if needed - usually only for switching buildings on site.

Coach Willow Leather Tote Bag

Buy Coach Willow Leather Tote Bag from our Handbags, Bags & Purses range at John Lewis & Partners. Free Delivery on orders over £70.

https://www.johnlewis.com/coach-willow-leather-tote-bag/p5235882

Stephmumofthree · 17/11/2025 17:27

Try poppies and peonies tote bags. They are a Canadian company but the interior has so many pockets and a laptop sleeve, key leash, stanley holder etc. I have a few and I love them.
Multitasker Tote Chestnut | Poppy and Peonies – Poppy & Peonies https://share.google/gGalY1V7S6S0v3Pdu

Bruisername · 17/11/2025 17:44

Stephmumofthree · 17/11/2025 17:27

Try poppies and peonies tote bags. They are a Canadian company but the interior has so many pockets and a laptop sleeve, key leash, stanley holder etc. I have a few and I love them.
Multitasker Tote Chestnut | Poppy and Peonies – Poppy & Peonies https://share.google/gGalY1V7S6S0v3Pdu

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These are cute but with a laptop in I feel it will be too stiff on one side? The video with a laptop it’s going in short side

also what do people do with their valuables (wallet, phone, keys) in a big bag? Do you take the big bag out at lunchtime or take another bag?

sorry for stupid questions!

Comtesse · 17/11/2025 18:46

Stephmumofthree · 17/11/2025 17:27

Try poppies and peonies tote bags. They are a Canadian company but the interior has so many pockets and a laptop sleeve, key leash, stanley holder etc. I have a few and I love them.
Multitasker Tote Chestnut | Poppy and Peonies – Poppy & Peonies https://share.google/gGalY1V7S6S0v3Pdu

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Blimey these are great!!

leli · 17/11/2025 18:55

Stephmumofthree · 17/11/2025 17:27

Try poppies and peonies tote bags. They are a Canadian company but the interior has so many pockets and a laptop sleeve, key leash, stanley holder etc. I have a few and I love them.
Multitasker Tote Chestnut | Poppy and Peonies – Poppy & Peonies https://share.google/gGalY1V7S6S0v3Pdu

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Love the video. I might get one! What's the vegan leather like?

Definitelynotme2022 · 18/11/2025 15:44

Out of your original list, I'd go for the Aspinal. But the Polene is gorgeous.

I have a Mulberry Bayswater and a large Iris, but it's tight with my laptop so I tend to only use those when visiting clients as | don't need my laptop.

Otherwise I use a large Le Pliage, at the moment I'm using this and I have to say that for the money it's been absolutely brilliant. I'll be emptying it in a couple of days and using it as my cabin bag.

https://miatui.com/collections/travel-bags/products/jennie-travel-bag?variant=55379905675639

Jennie

Jennie can be used for many different occasions, its hand luggage size for Ryanair. Easyjet, Jet2 & British Airways. Jennie is a travel handbag that makes a perfect weekend handbag. With the pocket at the back to go over the handles of a suitcase, Jenn...

https://miatui.com/collections/travel-bags/products/jennie-travel-bag?variant=55379905675639

Bruisername · 18/11/2025 15:55

@Definitelynotme2022

thats a very good price point! Would it take a 15 inch laptop do you think?

Abra1t · 18/11/2025 16:07

Maerchentante · 17/11/2025 17:19

I bought this bag about three or four years ago:

https://www.johnlewis.com/coach-willow-leather-tote-bag/p5235882

Works really well for work, can take A4 (that was the main criteria) and can also take my work laptop, if needed - usually only for switching buildings on site.

I have one of these, too, and it is a robust bag! I wish it had one more internal pocket, but that's all that's wrong with it.

StartledStarling · 18/11/2025 17:43

JingsMahBucket · 15/11/2025 21:19

I was going to say, all of these straps look way too skinny to me and would dig into my shoulders thereby causing pain. I’d look for something with thicker straps. I bought a Knomo bag years ago and still have it. It’s a beautiful cherry red leather laptop tote bag but unfortunately they’ve shrunken their colour selections and product lines dramatically over the years. https://knomo.com/collections/tote-bag

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I have this. After trying every kind of bag for work, I chose this. Very functional with great pockets and looks ok. I have it in blue and it looks new after a few years use.

twinmum2007 · 18/11/2025 19:30

I know it's not in the same league as the totes you've posted about, but I've just bought this and it's game changing.
So. Many. Pockets.
https://www.uniqlo.com/uk/en/products/E476764-000/00?gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18140988923&gclid=CjwKCAiAz_DIBhBJEiwAVH2XwEPQKBZ1KxdXWIuiKhfMnlkEcrNPwcnG1T0jfhcn5C5irHdxfVX42BoC-LwQAvD_BwE&colorDisplayCode=57

twinmum2007 · 18/11/2025 19:34

Stephmumofthree · 17/11/2025 17:27

Try poppies and peonies tote bags. They are a Canadian company but the interior has so many pockets and a laptop sleeve, key leash, stanley holder etc. I have a few and I love them.
Multitasker Tote Chestnut | Poppy and Peonies – Poppy & Peonies https://share.google/gGalY1V7S6S0v3Pdu

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These are lovely. Might get myself the Berry one. And wrap it up from Father Christmas!!

Bruisername · 18/11/2025 21:18

Well I spent ages on the poppies and peonies site and finally decided to buy but it’s £20 and returns would be a pain. Wish I could see one in the flesh first!!

Obeseandashamed · 18/11/2025 21:25

From these options I like the demellier one the most. It’s the most classy and classic looking.

Obeseandashamed · 18/11/2025 21:26

Abra1t · 18/11/2025 16:07

I have one of these, too, and it is a robust bag! I wish it had one more internal pocket, but that's all that's wrong with it.

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This coach is a great option - have you considered using a bag organiser/insert to give you extra pockets/organisation? X

jay55 · 19/11/2025 10:55

This thread has reminded me of a gorgeous coach hobo I used to have that was strong enough for my laptop which I could just get in if I angled it right. The wide strap made it so comfortable to hold.

i miss that bag so much. sigh.

Abra1t · 19/11/2025 11:43

Obeseandashamed · 18/11/2025 21:26

This coach is a great option - have you considered using a bag organiser/insert to give you extra pockets/organisation? X

I have some inserts but find they take up space so use little pouches as and when..

I have been impressed at how tough a bag it is.

Definitelynotme2022 · 19/11/2025 13:16

Bruisername · 18/11/2025 15:55

@Definitelynotme2022

thats a very good price point! Would it take a 15 inch laptop do you think?

@Bruisername

It definitely will - my laptop is 15.6 inch and fits easily. I can also get an A4 notepad and a slim waterbottle in. Plus keys, bits of makeup, tissues etc. It has lots of pockets which are very useful for bits. I generally don't take an actual handbag with me. It has over the shoulder straps and a long, adjustable crossbody strap too.

As a brand, I've found them great. I also have one of their expanding travel bags that I use for going backwards and forwards from my boyfriends house. It's so light, but really strong.

zacsGranny · 19/11/2025 19:25

HauntedMushroom · 16/11/2025 17:49

Have a look at Mimi Berry - all made in England, beautiful leather, last forever. I'm still using MB bags I bought over 15 years ago and they look even better now than they did then. I recently bought the Marge tote which you can add a strap to if you want to go hands-free. I use it with a bag insert/organiser and it's the best bag I ever bought.

Can I ask which insert you use please? I have a tote which could do with one. Do you need one made by the same company as the bag?

Candystripes85 · 19/11/2025 20:34

I had a bag similar to the Ralph Lauren one but it gets so heavy once you put a laptop and everything else inside. The straps are too thin my opinion, they will dig into your shoulders/arms and just be really uncomfortable to use.