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Not a 'wedding dress'

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notaweddingdress · 23/10/2025 16:40

I am planning on getting married in a registry office soon. We've been together for ages, 2 kids. Were due to get married in Covid and since had kids so never got round to rearranging. Part of the reason we've not got round to rescheduling is that we are super busy and just haven't got the bandwidth to organise a big do. As such, this will be a small affair and we'll maybe do a small meal after.

I'd like a nice outfit that's probably white but not a 'wedding dress' (although could be a white dress). I am 5ft7, size 8/10, small boobs, quite narrow hips so quite an athletic build. I like tailored things and simple silhouettes. Nothing too flouncy although I would like a bit of a wow factor. I've thought about a nice white suit but don't want to look too business like so needs to have a touch of glam. I think i'd like to keep it under a thousand pounds.

Any ideas?

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minishiteboard · 23/10/2025 19:13

Register. Not registry.

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 23/10/2025 19:16

Not wishing to point out the obvious, but it's pretty straightforward to keep it under a grand.
Check out Needle and Thread, some lovely dresses on there.

Towundertwo · 23/10/2025 19:19

This is mine, though I got it brand new on Vinted for £30! Worth looking on Vinted as there are some more unique ones x

added the link as not sure it’s added my photo!

www.asos.com/prd/208408940?acquisitionsource=pasteboard

Not a 'wedding dress'
WarrenTofficier · 23/10/2025 19:26

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 23/10/2025 19:16

Not wishing to point out the obvious, but it's pretty straightforward to keep it under a grand.
Check out Needle and Thread, some lovely dresses on there.

I think it was a way for the OP to highlight that she has a decent budget (so isn't looking for super cheap) but doesn't want to be shown top end designer £££££ options.

Mumandthemermaids · 23/10/2025 19:27

I love this! they have some lovely dresses that look really special and aren’t too wedding.
tove-studio.com/products/galina-dress-white

Mumandthemermaids · 23/10/2025 19:31

Also some lovely white tops and trousers to create your own set.

tove-studio.com/products/tuiren-top-white

CriticalCritter · 23/10/2025 19:41

Needle & Thread.

CriticalCritter · 23/10/2025 19:42

…the brand, not making it yourself. 🤣

Wurfit · 23/10/2025 19:43

Before you order anything, get yourself to a wed2be and try on a bunch of different styles. I am so glad I did this because even though the dress they sold me was way too big (seamstress was not impressed) the silhouette and overall look was quite, quite different to what I'd imagined myself wearing.

NavyTurtle · 23/10/2025 20:08

Some famous person wore something similar to this recently and looked stunning. Can't remember who it was.

notaweddingdress · 23/10/2025 21:47

WarrenTofficier · 23/10/2025 19:26

I think it was a way for the OP to highlight that she has a decent budget (so isn't looking for super cheap) but doesn't want to be shown top end designer £££££ options.

yeah, that’s what I was getting at. I appreciate that there’s lovely dresses available for much less than £1k but also that if someone had a suggestion of something a bit more expensive that’s fine up to around that number.

@Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden

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notaweddingdress · 23/10/2025 21:48

CriticalCritter · 23/10/2025 19:42

…the brand, not making it yourself. 🤣

Haha, I’d make a hash of sewing on a button 😂😂

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notaweddingdress · 23/10/2025 21:49

Thanks everyone - I’ll take a proper look tomorrow xx

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freedo · 23/10/2025 22:25

I love the back of this

https://annaoctober.com/collections/dresses/products/sima-dress?pos=14&&fid=33c5a5bd6&ss=c&variant=40199837319216

Rounder888 · 24/10/2025 10:13

I wore a coast dress for my wedding in Chelsea registry office this year. Dress was under £120 and then I spent another £180 getting it tailored. Had so many compliments, picture included ☺️

Not a 'wedding dress'
Secretbrumbride · 24/10/2025 13:12

I did this on Tuesday and this was my dress. I bought it from Oasis and paired with more expensive Esska shoes.

Not a 'wedding dress'
KathyDuck · 24/10/2025 15:54

Towundertwo · 23/10/2025 19:19

This is mine, though I got it brand new on Vinted for £30! Worth looking on Vinted as there are some more unique ones x

added the link as not sure it’s added my photo!

www.asos.com/prd/208408940?acquisitionsource=pasteboard

This is my favourite on this thread, it’s gorgeous.

puffballsleeves · 24/10/2025 15:58

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