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Guest at Muslim wedding.

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AhBiscuits · 31/08/2025 09:18

I'm looking for a dress to wear to a Muslim wedding. I am a white women. I understanding it should be modest; no cleavage, covered shoulders and below the knee. The bride is wearing sage green. I don't look good in dark colours. I'm considering either of these. Any good?

Guest at Muslim wedding.
Guest at Muslim wedding.
OP posts:
keeptalkinghappytalk · 05/09/2025 20:53

Uh oh .' modesty' ...the M word....I also don t like that word. If some women dress ' modestly' then the rest of us dress ' immodestly'... with all that implies in terms of wrongness

Commonsensemom · 28/05/2026 21:59

Where is the blue one from ? I’m needing something similar .
thank you

cinnamonbun123 · 29/05/2026 08:53

your hair covered won’t be necessary. Both dresses are fine but you might feel underdressed as there will be so much bling. The women will be decked out with lots of embellishment, jewellery, professional hair and makeup, it’s very different to an English wedding xx

Commonsensemom · 29/05/2026 14:42

Definitely no keggings … that what you might do if you were 10yrs and less , in the middle of winter 🤣

Commonsensemom · 29/05/2026 14:45

These Dresses are plenty long .. who are you kidding or pleasing ?

zamble · 29/05/2026 14:58

Muslim here. I have NEVER so much as heard of a wedding where non-Muslim guests have covered their heads.

Those dresses are fine by the way. As long as no low necklines or exposed thighs you're OK, those dresses are plenty long enough.

Out of interest, why do some people say that leggings are a bad idea?

Commonsensemom · 29/05/2026 18:01

What is the purpose of leggings if you already have a long dress ? They look horrendous ; something you would expect a child to wear in cold weather … it’s a fashion faux pas especially at a wedding .

AhBiscuits · 30/05/2026 11:08

Commonsensemom · 28/05/2026 21:59

Where is the blue one from ? I’m needing something similar .
thank you

It was Monsoon.

I ended up wearing a very lovely sparkly one and the wedding was wonderful. I'd never seen so much food 😄

OP posts:
Nousernamesleftatall · 30/05/2026 12:36

zamble · 29/05/2026 14:58

Muslim here. I have NEVER so much as heard of a wedding where non-Muslim guests have covered their heads.

Those dresses are fine by the way. As long as no low necklines or exposed thighs you're OK, those dresses are plenty long enough.

Out of interest, why do some people say that leggings are a bad idea?

Because they are casual items of clothing worn mostly by children. Why wear leggings under a dress in summer? They look bad under a dress in winter never mind at the height of summer.

zamble · 30/05/2026 15:56

I see, thanks for replying. Some Muslims wear it though to "halalify" their outfits (not if it's a long dress obviously, but if legs can be seen)

ForPeaceSake · 30/05/2026 23:22

zamble · 30/05/2026 15:56

I see, thanks for replying. Some Muslims wear it though to "halalify" their outfits (not if it's a long dress obviously, but if legs can be seen)

Some do, yes. I personally think it looks crap. Better to get a longer dress than a shorter one with leggings that likely won't even match properly. It's like when someone wears a sleeveless dress with a tight long sleeved t-shirt under it. It just looks wrong imo. Purely my taste though 😄

ForPeaceSake · 30/05/2026 23:23

AhBiscuits · 30/05/2026 11:08

It was Monsoon.

I ended up wearing a very lovely sparkly one and the wedding was wonderful. I'd never seen so much food 😄

Lovely result, OP. What style were other guests wearing?

aurpod1980 · 31/05/2026 00:15

What culture? Muslims from every country in the world will have different fashions

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