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Naice Dinner in London - what to wear…?

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baggyleggings · 21/08/2025 22:43

Advice needed please. I’m going to London for a weekend next week to meet up with some good friends whom I don’t see very often. One of my friends (lives in London, high earning man) has suggested that we go somewhere ‘special’ for dinner. Am trying to play it a bit cool and not ask for specifics! What should I wear?

I live rurally and generally dress up a pair of jeans to go out from home.

I have a flattering LBD which I could wear. What with though? Would silver ballet pumps and bear legs work? What about a kimono style shruggy thing over the top? Expect it will still be quite warm.

I have a green satin calf-length skirt or wide leg linen trousers. Or dresses in other colours.

Don’t really want to buy new if I can avoid it.

Thanks for reading.

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IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 23/08/2025 17:47

Cardemomle · 23/08/2025 14:29

Ah, @MaturingCheeseball - we still don't know what gives a person away as an "out of towner"!
I'm none the wiser.

Answer came there none.

owlexpress · 23/08/2025 18:00

hangerup · 23/08/2025 16:14

Personally I would steer away from metallics, and wouldn't particularly aim to match your bag and shoes to each other. Neutral shades look more elegant IMO, the only time I really wear metallics is to weddings.

I love metallics but never wear them to a wedding, far too cliche

Lol, okay. Actually I rarely wear them at all but didn't want to be a dick to OP. That doesn't seem to bother you though.

Cardemomle · 23/08/2025 18:03

I've found a good Molly Goddard outfit.

Naice Dinner in London - what to wear…?
Cardemomle · 23/08/2025 18:04

owlexpress · 23/08/2025 18:00

Lol, okay. Actually I rarely wear them at all but didn't want to be a dick to OP. That doesn't seem to bother you though.

Yeah, plus, what is a "cliche" in this instance?

bunnybunnybunnybunny · 23/08/2025 18:26

MaturingCheeseball · 23/08/2025 16:39

Veering off topic, I’m afraid, but I was wondering, where are all the denim jackets? It went from 100% of women to… well, they’ve completely disappeared.

Perhaps the very fashion forward have started wearing them again already in order to distinguish themselves from the gauche whose denim jackets are regretfully consigned to the back of the wardrobe.

😂

Will admit I sold off my two denim jackets a few years ago as they didn't feel very modern. I did keep a denim quilted kimono jacket though as it's great in winter.

As it is August bank holiday weekend, I will be doing my annual pre-autumn/winter cull/sort through so I can think about what I would like to buy. Have already been thinking about this (or something along these lines) although will wait until their sample sale before buying.

District Denim Jacket in Indigo Wash

The District jacket is a modern take on a classic workwear silhouette. It’s cut from our 13oz Japanese denim that’s washed to give it a softer hand feel and add subtle fluidity to the structure. It features generous patch pockets, a neat button-through...

https://www.studionicholson.com/products/district-denim-jacket-in-indigo-wash

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 23/08/2025 18:49

@OurStepsWillAlwaysRhyme, @mamagogo1, and @SophiaSW1

I'm in London maybe 4 or 5 times every year. I wear what I would wear in any city, including my home city. Maybe "real Londoners" are sniggering behind my back at my "out of towner, bridge and tunnel" provincialism "sticking out" but if they are they hide it very well. I don't think I ever come across a Londoner who hasn't been friendly and helpful.

Special call out to the lovely young man in Dover Street Market when we both knew the Renli Su dress I was trying on was unlikely to fit- but he said give it a go. (Although he was Scottish and a graduate of Glasgow School of Art, so maybe he doesn't count)

hangerup · 23/08/2025 19:23

Lol, okay. Actually I rarely wear them at all but didn't want to be a dick to OP. That doesn't seem to bother you though.

I wasn't a dick to the OP, I said she could wear her metallic shoes...

jamnpancakes · 23/08/2025 19:40

Denim jackets have moved on from the traditional style to dark raw denim and usually with a much looser fit, sometimes cropped and sometimes oversized. Everyone has them but in different shapes - Cos, FarmRio, Albaray. They are alive and kicking.

Naice Dinner in London - what to wear…?
Naice Dinner in London - what to wear…?
hangerup · 23/08/2025 19:44

Ooh I like that 2nd one @jamnpancakes

jamnpancakes · 23/08/2025 19:51

It's tempting isn't it but wool .

Naice Dinner in London - what to wear…?
hangerup · 23/08/2025 19:53

not practical then for me

owlexpress · 23/08/2025 20:26

Cardemomle · 23/08/2025 18:04

Yeah, plus, what is a "cliche" in this instance?

Florals, for spring..?

baggyleggings · 25/08/2025 23:01

For anyone who’s still reading - we’re going to The Shard. Very excited. Thanks to those of you who gave advice and reassurance.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 26/08/2025 09:01

baggyleggings · 25/08/2025 23:01

For anyone who’s still reading - we’re going to The Shard. Very excited. Thanks to those of you who gave advice and reassurance.

Have a lovely time! What did you decide on? I’ve never been to the Shard, so please report back!

BitOutOfPractice · 26/08/2025 09:09

Yes have fun op. I’m sure you’ll look just right. I think there’ll be a wide range of formalish / casual there. (Not been for a few years!) Did you decide on the green skirt?

Id also like to commend this thread for the use of the word gauche which I will try and get into my conversation this week.

OldieButBaddie · 26/08/2025 11:00

gingercat02 · 22/08/2025 18:46

Yep the Geordies love a night out, dress and heels is still a thing up here, but there is also a crowd in wide legs and tops.
The youngsters are generally in skin tight dresses and bum skimming skirts, (my teen DS mates and GF.)
Usually trousers and a smart shirt or crisp T for the lads

Thank you! This is very helpful!

SirChenjins · 26/08/2025 12:01

Cardemomle · 23/08/2025 18:03

I've found a good Molly Goddard outfit.

Edgy and bold, with just the right amount of non-conformist artificial fibre generated crotch sweat adorning it. You'll be quite the talk of the event in that.

Cardemomle · 26/08/2025 18:35

SirChenjins · 26/08/2025 12:01

Edgy and bold, with just the right amount of non-conformist artificial fibre generated crotch sweat adorning it. You'll be quite the talk of the event in that.

Thank you. I'm going to see The Importance of Being Earnest at the local theatre.

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