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Update / style older dresses

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MavisTheMonkey · 28/05/2025 08:02

I’m doing low buy this year and have just done a clear out of my wardrobe, getting rid of stuff that doesn’t fit anymore or that was poor quality or hadn’t been worn in years. Even after donating 4 bin liners to charity I have loads of clothes.
I have kept four dresses that fit (they’re actually very flattering) and that are great quality but they just aren’t entirely my style anymore. They are part of my work wardrobe but occasionally worn casually. I used to live in patterned dresses but now tend towards a bit more minimal so haven’t worn these for a while.
Can any clever S&B posters give ideas / advice on how I can style these dresses to make them more current? Here are pics of two of the four dresses. All advice gratefully received

Update / style older dresses
Update / style older dresses
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PrimevalStomp · 28/05/2025 11:24

The material looks soft - so they’d probably make good cushion filling if torn up …

gloriousrhino · 28/05/2025 11:47

They're very pretty and timeless I would say.

TJH1 · 28/05/2025 11:55

@PrimevalStomp is there any need? I am embarrassed for you.

MavisTheMonkey · 28/05/2025 12:02

Ignoring the cushions comment…
They are very ‘nice’ but that’s not quite the look I’m after. I was wondering about layering with a shirt?

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Londonmummy66 · 28/05/2025 12:07

Belts are a big thing this season so perhaps try wearing 2 or 3 thin ones with the dresses - if you google 2025 street style belts you should get several different images.

TheLongRider · 28/05/2025 12:07

Layer with a shirt or put a jumper over the top to convert into a skirt.

Honestly, if your style has changed so much, you won't wear them. I'd get rid. You'll feel annoyed every time you see them languishing unworn in your wardrobe.

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 28/05/2025 12:11

They would look really different styled with thick black tights, doc marten style boots, hoodie, something like that.

Or chop them up and wear as skirts? I’ve done that sometimes. With mine though, there wasn’t enough of the top half to make it wearable, so it was basically turning a dress into a skirt and binning the rest.

3beesinmybonnet · 28/05/2025 12:16

You could always try dyeing them a darker colour to mask the fussiness of the print, whilst keeping the flattering style. The results are a bit unpredictable though so it depends if you're prepared to risk spoiling them.
Lovely dresses though.

uncomfortablydumb60 · 28/05/2025 14:23

You could dress them down with flats, wear a shirt over it or convert into separates if you still love the print.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 28/05/2025 20:53

If you don’t love them you won’t wear them (or feel comfortable wearing them) so how about selling them and then using the money to buy one or two dresses you really do love? It would be “free money” so not technically breaking a no-buy. (#girlmaths)

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 28/05/2025 22:40

They would look really different styled with thick black tights, doc marten style boots, hoodie, something like that.

This or flat shoes. Or wool waistcoat. They need to be dressed down.

MavisTheMonkey · 29/05/2025 09:39

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 28/05/2025 22:40

They would look really different styled with thick black tights, doc marten style boots, hoodie, something like that.

This or flat shoes. Or wool waistcoat. They need to be dressed down.

Yes I think that’s it, they do need to be dressed down but I was hoping to keep wearing them for work which is a corporate setting. A wool waistcoat could be a good solution.

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MavisTheMonkey · 29/05/2025 09:41

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 28/05/2025 20:53

If you don’t love them you won’t wear them (or feel comfortable wearing them) so how about selling them and then using the money to buy one or two dresses you really do love? It would be “free money” so not technically breaking a no-buy. (#girlmaths)

Girl maths is what’s gotten me into this clothes avalanche mess 😂

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FancyBiscuitsLevel · 29/05/2025 09:52

I know what you mean about the old busy print dresses, I’ve got a few and I just haven’t been reaching for them when the weather has been nice. I’ve lied to myself I needed the right flats to go with or a plain cardie but having purchased these, still not interested in wearing with the busy dresses for work.

I mean, obviously style with tan flats and add belt as suggested, shorter cardie or plain jacket to cover some of the top half pattern. Try this all on and see how you look in it. Then make yourself wear one of them to work next week. If you don’t like the way you look that day/way it feels, then sell them. worse case scenario- you look a bit rubbish for one day.

angelinawasrobbed · 29/05/2025 09:53

Just a blazer over the top would denature them

OurManyEnds · 29/05/2025 09:55

I’ve probably had the same style evolution as you, and gone from patterns to much more minimal, blacks and neutrals, and structured shapes.

I would probably lose these tbh - or - at a push, wear them with heavy boots and a long sleeve mesh top underneath.

bubblesformiles · 29/05/2025 10:27

It's a lot of thought for maybe not the greatest end result. I would sell them on and buy new. They are very " safe" dresses . I think you will always see the ? you have about them regardless of what you add to them. Bite the bullet 😉

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