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Newwbie pre-wedding skincare advice

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wholeeverything · 26/04/2025 10:59

Hello, getting married in August and looking to improve my skincare.
Context:

  • I've always had combination / normal skin, oily across T-zone at end of day, large pores, normal otherwise. I had spots as a teenager but no break outs now.
  • Until about 2 years ago always felt my skin looked fine make-up free. I'm 41 now and am much less happy with how my overall skin looks.
  • Main concerns: pores look bigger than ever, skin colour seems more uneven / reddish, skin generally dull. No major wrinkles.

I'm really not sure what makes it look worse than it used to. I think its the pores plus general dullness but there isn't discolouration as such, just generally doesn't look as good.

Current routine:

  • Cerave hydrating cleanser twice a day. Used to use the one for combination skin before but this one means my skin doesn't feel tight after cleansing.
  • Neutrogena gel moisture surge moisturiser twice a day.
  • At night I sometimes use Cerave retinol serum and sometimes use a glycolic acid toner (Revolution 5%), maybe 2-3 times a week each. Not sure these have done much to help.

I find a lot of products for aging skin are more to tackle dryness and can leave me too shiny.

I did use Estée Lauder's Advanced Night Repair for a couple of months last year and certainly loved it, no idea if it actually helped though.

If anyone has advice on a better cleanser and moisturiser, and/or one or two products I could add in to improve my skin appearance, especially the pores, that'd be great. Thanks!

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Iwontlethtesungodownonme · 26/04/2025 19:18

I did something similar a couple of years ago. Took lots of lovely suggestions from a skin care facebook site. My skin reacted to something and was a mess for a couple of months so whatever you do take it slowly.

FifiFiadh · 26/04/2025 20:07

Drink lots of water and give your face a good rub with a face cloth every night.

I can’t help but think some skin care products are a bit unnecessary, not saying yours are as I only do this and slap on a bit of moisturiser.

I am almost 70 and for my age my skin is pretty ok.

lovemycbf · 26/04/2025 21:00

I’d not rock the boat tbh as changing your routine could cause a breakout
as the saying goes “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it”

wholeeverything · 29/04/2025 07:09

Thanks for the healthy advice! You may well be right..I will be cautious. Might splash out on the Advanced Night Repair since I. Know it suits my skin at least even if it's not doing much! But no peels or retinol prescriptions!

I really just want my old makeup free skin back!

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