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Help me dress 18 year old DS for interview!

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Goinggoinggone12345 · 24/02/2025 11:12

Hello all. My 18 year old DS has an interview coming up for a degree apprenticeship (engineering) and I would really appreciate any ideas about what he should wear to look the part - he is quite quirky and neither of us has any idea what brands teenage boys usually wear! He is slender and fairly tall and we're aiming for a smart casual look. Thanks very much in advance!

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Hayley1256 · 24/02/2025 11:15

Could he wear chinos with a nice short and blazer? I would go for smart shoes or loafers depending on his style

PaperAeroplane · 24/02/2025 11:17

Suit trousers, shirt, tie and loafers.

Chuchoter · 24/02/2025 11:21

I would go and have a look in Next if you're on a budget.

Thinking of looking-

www.next.co.uk/style/st117534/453143

Delphigirl · 24/02/2025 11:22

I also think some sort of chino in navy or beige, a collared shirt, probably a light blue oxford, and perhaps a nice half zip sweater in navy or charcoal, dark grey or lighter grey. Then I would say probably proper shoes (oxfords or brogues), traditional in shape (not pointy) in black or brown. You could get all of this anywhere from vinted to next or m&s to John Lewis or Charles Tyrwhitt depending on budget!

Blarn · 24/02/2025 11:28

Dh has had a few interviews in the last year and has worn trousers/chinos, a shirt and tie with a smart jumper over the top and smart clean and polished shoes/boots. They have been for senior management roles but the shirt and jersey combo just looked better than when he put a suit jacket on.

DaffodillyDallyDame · 24/02/2025 11:29

I would start with a shirt and work from there. Websites are helpful with styling. Eg:

Zara

As pp have said - chinos, proper shoes, jacket. (Definitely doesn’t have to be a suit.)

BethDuttonforGovernor · 24/02/2025 11:32

My father-in-law is a Chartered Engineer and very senior in his last couple of roles and I was an engineer (construction) many moons ago. Whenever we have had conversations about young people interviewing, whether for graduate entry or apprenticeships, he always, always stressed the importance of showing up looking smart! That to him, and it may be an old-fashioned concept, always included shirt, tie, and suit. If not a suit, smart dark-coloured trousers and ideally a blazer or smart wool jumper over the shirt. Think school uniform and you won't be far off the mark for an apprenticeship interview, whether for degree or 16+.

If finances can't stretch, I'd recommend vinted or alternatively, a relatively cheap suit; together with smart, clean and polished shoes. The people hiring will likely be older and even though most, if not all, engineering apprenticeships will require work clothes like overalls or very casual 'work clothes', interviews still require a more polished look.

FYI: interviewees showing up casually dressed and/or looking scruffy never impressed my father-in-law! That's not to say he won't get the apprenticeship if he adopts a more casual get-up...but if I was him, I wouldn't want to be placing more obstacles in my way, when apprenticeships are pretty competitive these days!

He may feel a little overdressed but forget about being 'quirky' for the interview, he needs to get a foot in the door! I think in recent years, especially post covid, we seem to have forgotten that for a lot of industries smart clothing is still necessary for an interview.

Hope that helps and good luck to him!

PaperAeroplane · 24/02/2025 11:39

Try Tkmaxx for shirts and trousers, my husband shops there a lot and it's always good value.

TianasBayou · 24/02/2025 11:50

Does he also need a suit for prom? Or other occasions?

Don't overthink it:

Suit from Next as they do all combinations of size & height. Navy, dark grey or black, whatever flatters his colouring.

Proper shoes, can be black or brown, plain or brogues.

White or light blue shirt, and pay attention to the fit around the neck.

Tie of choice

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/02/2025 11:54

When attending similar interviews my DS wore smart trousers, shirt, tie, V neck sweater - and his dad's shoes! New shoes were bought when he got the job.

((I'm now musing to myself on what he wore on his feet to school prom with his suit if he had no smart shoes ... I guess his feet must have grown))

MrsLeonFarrell · 24/02/2025 12:02

I believe interviews are one of those occasions where it is better to be over dressed than under dressed. My young adults go in suit and tie.

KittenPause · 24/02/2025 12:10

Suit, shirt and tie

Not a black suit. Dark blue or grey

Goinggoinggone12345 · 24/02/2025 12:13

Thank you all very much, this is really helpful!

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SellFridges · 24/02/2025 12:27

I often run assessment centres for these type of roles. I would echo what others have suggested - chinos, shirt, sweater all fine. Clean (new looking) smart trainers would work just as well as formal shoes and I would say are as common.

Out of an assessment centre of 18 I would say only one or two would be in suits and it has no bearing on their success at all.

CortadoPlease · 24/02/2025 14:33

100% suit, shirt, tie probably optional. It’ll say he’s taking the interview seriously.

user2848502016 · 24/02/2025 14:56

I would just go for smart chinos or black trousers (school ones are fine if he has a pair), with a smart plain shirt.

No need to make it too complicated. I would just go somewhere like next or even primark.
I interview occasionally for work and nobody seems to wear suit and tie these days. Just something smart and tidy is fine.

Rockingroll · 24/02/2025 15:03

Delphigirl · 24/02/2025 11:22

I also think some sort of chino in navy or beige, a collared shirt, probably a light blue oxford, and perhaps a nice half zip sweater in navy or charcoal, dark grey or lighter grey. Then I would say probably proper shoes (oxfords or brogues), traditional in shape (not pointy) in black or brown. You could get all of this anywhere from vinted to next or m&s to John Lewis or Charles Tyrwhitt depending on budget!

Exactly this.

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