I'm very dark brown with maybe 30% streaks of grey. I have thick wavy frizzy hair which I tame with products but it's prone to drink hair colour where it's so porous so if I put even a non permanent lighter brown to blend the grey it comes out jet black and I look terrible with black hair.
I would like to go lighter but I don't want to look orange. Blonde would be nice but is that achievable at home?
I'm on maternity leave and feel washed out don't have a lot of money and don't want to make a terrible mistake.