Try not to change all your products at once and give new ones a fair chance before giving up on them! Also mid 30s and dry combo skin since kids; but also glowing so my go to's and recs are as follows..
AM
Cleanse (gentle cleanser)
Tone (pixi's glow tonic is a bestseller for a reason!)
Treat (a decent vitamin C serum like dr Dennis gross's; or skinceuticals is the gold standard if you can afford it!)
Moisturise (daily moisturiser like Glow Recipe watermelon glow pink juice)
SPF
PM
Cleanse (oil based cleanser or micellar water to remove any makeup and spf)
Cleanse again (gentle cleanser to remove any remaining spf and dirt/grime etc)
Tone (toner)
Treat (retinol)
Moisturise (thicker night moisturiser like Drunk Elephant lala retro whipped cream)
Finding a decent SPF that you are happy to wear daily is THE most important bit.
A recommendation for an SPF that: dries down nicely and doesn't feel sticky or tacky, doesn't sit in my pores, doesn't look shiny or leave a white cast, sits nicely under makeup, and doesn't break me out. 100% recommend Ultra Violette's queen screen or supreme screen!!!!
I would say only use Tret if your skin is really needing it, otherwise a decent retinol is fine. Naturium's Retinaldehyde cream serum 0.05%. I won't say more, the reviews speak for themselves☺️
Good luck and sorry for the mammoth post!x