Think hair is grey in parts but previously natural colour brunette with copper lights. Currently colour at home close to original shade. As am just over 40 (nearly 42) want to get to a lighter toffeeish colour as understand this makes you look youthful and untired altho obvously want to avoid greige (a la Alison Steadman). Am thinking Ruth Kelly stylee (only in terms of current hair colour obviously). P.S. paleish skin with freckles in summer but not in winter. Please help - is this something I could do myself or do need to spend £££ at hairdressers but once done could maybe maintain at home? Do not want to go grey.