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I am poor but

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BlastedPimples · 19/10/2024 09:03

I still want to look lovely. I have lost my way in terms of style. I don't want to look poor.

I like simple, classic, stylish clothes. I am very tall so I don't like fuss, frills etc.

Where should I shop?

And, bearing in mind I have a limited budget, what items should I buy so that I can get maximum use in terms of mixing them up, making them look different etc.

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TodayThisName · 19/10/2024 18:15

I agree with buying secondhand, but you really need to be aware when you're buying online. I buy loads on Vinted and have very few real 'fails', but I'm cautious and check carefully before buying. There are scammers on there daily. And many people who really don't check (or don't care) about condition.

(And it is addictive)

Charity shops can be great for real gems if you have the time to browse regularly. I second the suggestion to look for older wool coats in good condition.

But I find them great for basics. For example, I recently realised I had no (decent, without holes!) long sleeved tops to wear under jumpers. A few charity shop visits later and I found 10 or so in new or nearly new condition. All cotton or linen - brands from Seasalt, Toast and M&S to Papaya and Primark. Priced between 50p and £4. Sorted.

FinallyHere · 19/10/2024 19:15

Another way to elevate your look is to have items adjusted so that they really fit you.

Simple things like hemline, more complicated but equally important like the shoulder seam and length of sleeves.

Ideally you might be able to do this yourself. I've tried and confirmed that I can't do having someone who can is really helpful.

Pigeon123456 · 19/10/2024 19:34

I bought some gold hoop earrings a few months ago (mine are from Hey Harper) and I feel they make me look more put together no matter what I'm wearing, whether I'm at the office or just in jeans and a t shirt. They've been a brilliant buy.

bunnybunnybunnybunny · 19/10/2024 20:03

@TheOriginalFrench's advice is spot on. It's not just about clothing, it's about self-care and investing in yourself too.

Vinted has numerous pitfalls, so unless you know what you're looking for and/or buying, and the seller supplies enough pictures and information including measurements, it's not quite the solution. And while some like @Keleshey have found amazing finds in charity shops, I've rarely, if ever, found anything, and believe me, I've spent a lot of time looking.

Regrettably, I don't think looking good is as simple as buying a few t-shirts, some striped tops and a great pair of jeans, (although having a selection of the latter is essential if you like wearing jeans). Not everyone suits or even needs these items. The idea of a capsule wardrobe is great in theory but in practise, the oft cited staples aren't things that everyone wants to wear/suits their needs. It's better to use the idea of a capsule wardrobe as a guide to building your own version of it rather than following the guidelines religiously.

Before so much as buying anything, sit down and think properly about what clothes you actually like. Whose style do you admire? Sometimes, once you figure out the latter, the former is easier to emulate. Pinterest as good for this, but so is Instagram. Instead of looking at influencers, look at brands and then look at their tagged pages to see how people are wearing their clothes. It's a shame Matchesfashion is no longer trading because their styling was great. Even so, e-tailers like Mytheresa, Net-a-Porter and Farfetch can be used in a similar way. Additionally, if you find pictures online of outfits you like, use google lens to identify where the clothes come from. Then you can find more purse friendly alternatives.

'And, bearing in mind I have a limited budget, what items should I buy so that I can get maximum use in terms of mixing them up, making them look different etc.'

The key, I think, is spending your money well. Look for quality rather than trends, and it will take a while to build a decent wardrobe. Accessories - bags, belts. jewellery and shoes - will maximise the potential of the individual pieces and making outfits look different.

Happy shopping OP

nearlylovemyusername · 19/10/2024 22:37

Slothsheen · 19/10/2024 11:08

Holland cooper have some lovely clothes and fairly priced

Hmm, viscose jumpers for £120... not sure if it's reasonably priced and if it helps OP who mentioned limited very budget

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