Tell me you look down your nose and judge others without telling me you look down your nose and judge others. Yikes.
See, this is why I feel uncomfortable in certain places and around certain people. I'm getting better as I get older though.
I grew up in poverty. Massive rips in my trainers which I still had to wear for P.E. I had to borrow my mum's shoes for an event when I was about 11....they looked like huge clown shoes on me and I got lots of a weird looks and stifled giggles from other parents. I genuinely didn't have a coat when I was mid-teens because we couldn't afford one. Etc etc etc!
Born into a WC family in a disadvantaged area of the UK....never encouraged into further education but did it anyway while supporting myself financially. Done not too bad, not the classic MN six figure salary 😂 but I'm fucking proud of myself! Can't help what I was born and raised into. But it says more about the sneerers than it does me.
I'm not a huge follower of fashion but when I do buy something I want to feel nice, I "reward" myself with a bag or footwear, or a nice coat with a name. By that i mean if it's my birthday, got a new job. Otherwise it's high street. I technically could afford to spend more but it's ingrained in me.
But then I sometimes worry about what some stranger/wanker may think because my bag is from Kurt Geiger and not worth £1000s. The insecurity creeps back in.
We get it. You have money....you know the brands. Slow clap. Now please let the op and others enjoy the thread and take inspiration, ideas and joy from each other. Let us enjoy what we like. If you don't like it then fair enough...make your point without looking down, without the not-so-thinly veiled sneering and smugness.