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Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: It's French charm, you know, beheaded people, red wine and blood all over the place - it's romantic, it's normal.

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botemp · 11/08/2024 12:50

Lovers of Parisian style and fashion with a conscious mindset and lots of chatter in between.

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PoppySeedBagelRedux · 22/08/2025 13:22

The next meet up, we’ll have to wear them!

CrkdLttrCrkdLttr · 29/08/2025 12:08

I’m wondering if you committed to the kilt, @botemp. It is mesmerising in movement!

https://www.phoebephilo.com/products/kilt-tobacco-wool

And the up close photo of the shirt that’s landed in my inbox is pretty impressive.

PoppySeedBagelRedux · 29/08/2025 14:03

Oh the beauty of really good wool cloth. I miss it.

botemp · 31/08/2025 12:17

Committed @CrkdLttrCrkdLttr ? Not even a fling, (Highland pun not intended). My hips and kilts are an odd combo, I will merely admire from afar. I have been nosing around her stands in Paris though, it made me grabby for that stripy suede bag but it's kind of huge. I think Phoebe kicked me off her mailing list though, haven't received anything in a while come to think of it.

Flo, the Louvre Couture exhibit was magnificent and a bit overwhelming (it really could have used a little tranquil cafe pause in the middle). I'm not sure my photos do it justice. The exhibition magazine I bought is pretty good though, think it can be purchased online. I think I overdosed a bit on culture, 4 exhibits in a scant 48 hours. I'll see what I can do about sticking photos in a shareable album if anyone's interested in the fashion exhibits I went too.

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PoppySeedBagelRedux · 31/08/2025 14:49

Yes please Bo!

So, yesterday, I turned up at the V&A for 10 o’clock, when the Cartier exhibition opened (I’m a member so don’t need to book) but unfortunately it was closed temporarily, apparently on the orders of Cartier.

I hung around for a while but it didn’t look likely to open, so I went and tried to explore the shops in Kensington. I haven’t been to Kensington since I was 18, many years ago, and it was a real disappointment but possibly I didn’t look in the right place (I was on Kensington High Street). There were two good big buildings, former department stores, which must’ve been wonderful in their heyday but they were almost empty of shops now.

I can always go back to the Cartier exhibition, but I did feel for the people who had booked in the normal way and can’t go back.

Floisme · 02/09/2025 08:55

That's annoying Poppy. Aside from the charity shops, I don't think I've found much in Kensington either. I normally walk up to Harrods.

bo I think I need a lie down just thinking about going to 4 exhibitions in 48 hours! Yes please, I'd love to see the photos. I might check out the couture catalogue too.

I took a trip to an antique/vintage fair over the bank holiday. I've been to this one before and it's always more general antiques than clothes but I've often found something good there and I'd set myself a strict £50 limit as I'm still on a budget. I needn't have worried - I saw one 1960s cocktail dress with stained armpits but otherwise nothing was any more vintage than my mid-twenties age son. So that's it, I admit defeat. When my frugal spell ends I'll be taking to Ebay / Etsy, maybe even Vinted. The end of an era or a new dawn? Tomayto tomato?

botemp · 02/09/2025 18:01

Oh, I really enjoy the Japan Centre on Kensington High Street, granted it's all the way near the palace at the end of it and is easy to miss. They have a really good restaurant and cafe with proper matcha served as in Japan, none of this watered down nonsense. I also like the exhibition space in the basement (think it's currently about Japanese architecture). Lovely little bits in the shop section as well, sadly most of which I usually can't take home. But, otherwise, yeah, it's a pretty weird shopping area, too much heavy traffic to feel like a pedestrian area, not very inspiring shops. Probably serves the people who live around there well enough, there's a few charity shops in the side streets, I think it was the Royal Trinity one that had good items but they were priced accordingly. Studio Nicholson seemed to donate there.

I know Flo, I overdid it, I was surprisingly fine the day after returning but I totally vegged out the day after that. But as much as the internet says everything closing in August in Paris was overstated these days, everywhere I went to was pretty dead, or worse, filled with very loud American tourists (I'm not sure my annoyance with them is based on current geopolitics or that they just seemed to be the main mass of tourists and they were just numerous, probably a combination thereof). I need to figure out how to share images, I moved cloud provider and I'm not sure how it shares in a public setting.

Vintage does seem to be going through a weird price inflation moment which means anything of age is going to specialist sellers. I think the younger generation that purposefully wore secondhand have sort of outgrown the stage where it was just the super cheap stuff that came with a certain clout for being obviously old and worn and are moving onto a new version with proper vintage clothes where they look a little less bedraggled but still obviously wearing not new clothes.

Fashion news, Proenza Schouler has appointed a new designer, I wasn't aware they were looking for someone, I just assumed they'd design both there and for Loewe. Guess not, unknown to me designer, Rachel Scott, her own brand is Diotima, my first quick impression was bit 'eh', ignoring the waffle about French existentialism and post-structuralism, not sure I'm seeing much Caribbean style in her work, but I'm not an expert on that (I'm guessing the mentioned nuance is lost on me), but she seems to have a fondness for Harris Tweed so that puts her in the good book for now.

ABOUT DIOTIMA

Designer Rachel Scott (b. 1984, Jamaica) comes to fashion through language. Drawing on her background in French existentialism and post-structuralism, Scott’s interest in fashion began with an awareness of language’s connection to culture and creativit...

https://diotima.world/pages/about-2

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Floisme · 02/09/2025 18:51

If I go for it, I'll be looking mainly for specific pre-1970s vintage brands that fell out of fashion and are still largely forgotten and for that, I think Ebay and Etsy will be more fruitful than Vinted, which still reminds me of a closing down sale at the OK Corral, only without any of the fun.

Is anyone planning a raid on the Uniqlo C range tomorrow? (Or is it on Thursday?) I'd normally be going after a few things but think I'll try and be good and give it a swerve, even if they have signed up Cate Blanchett, who looks very fetching in that shirt with the high collar.

botemp · 02/09/2025 20:15

Cate Blanchett, you say, I haven't seen her advertising it. I was only really interested in that high collar shirt. If my local Uniqlo has some in stock I'll give it a whirl. Just checked, it's launching on thursday.

I dunno about eBay but etsy seems to going downhill fast as it's been overflowing with dropshippers selling Chinese tat. Now with the de minimis rule being dismantled in the US a lot of the small independent sellers on there (the US seems to be the largest customer base for most sellers) are likely being dealt the final blow. Have you never tried browsing Vestiaire Collective, you can search specifically for vintage, unless it's something very special it tends to be reasonably priced?

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Floisme · 03/09/2025 07:39

Ah good call, thanks, I’d forgotten all about Vestiare! I registered quite a few years ago but never got round to using it. I’m probably locked out by now.

I follow some vintage dealers on Instagram - just for the photos and quite a few of them sell on Etsy rather than EBay, not sure why. Yeah they’re having a rocky time. Some used to have real shops in bygone days and now they’re being squeezed again. I’m always happy to buy from good dealers - they know their stuff and they work hard to get it.

I like the look of the flares in the C collection and, if they were a wool mix, I’d be tempted even though they’d be double the price. But they’re all polyester and no belt loops so need to be a perfect fit and I don’t think I can be arsed with the inevitable returns fandango. But I’m still eying up the green block colour pleated skirt which might work with a jacket I’ve got and that I thought would go with everything and doesn’t. Plus it (the skirt) has a semi elasticated waist so fit less crucial. I’ll have to be disciplined though and return if it’s not absolutely right as I really want to clear the credit card before Christmas looms. Cate Blanchett’s on the home page - she’s Uniqlo’s new embassador.

Redandblue11 · 03/09/2025 07:58

Just logged into Uniqlo to see Cate and makes me want that shirt.
I came to try to get a date fixed for the meet up at V&A.

We are thinking first /second week of Nov. During the week, towards the end of the week.
who is potentially interested? Can you shout and then we DM the exact details.
was @PoppySeedBagelRedux ?
@Voltefarce ?
@botemp
mm and micro also, but I think they have name changes so I will get in touch separately.

I think some else said might me interested and I forgot, but I have my notepad now ready 📔!

PoppySeedBagelRedux · 03/09/2025 19:49

It’s a yes from me, blue, thank you. I can’t do WE of 01.11.25 or Sats 08.11.25 & 22.11.25 but can otherwise. And December is free.

Redandblue11 · 04/09/2025 09:33

Let’s work with week starting 10th Nov
@PoppySeedBagelRedux , check your DM x

Voltefarce · 04/09/2025 09:57

Redandblue11 · 03/09/2025 07:58

Just logged into Uniqlo to see Cate and makes me want that shirt.
I came to try to get a date fixed for the meet up at V&A.

We are thinking first /second week of Nov. During the week, towards the end of the week.
who is potentially interested? Can you shout and then we DM the exact details.
was @PoppySeedBagelRedux ?
@Voltefarce ?
@botemp
mm and micro also, but I think they have name changes so I will get in touch separately.

I think some else said might me interested and I forgot, but I have my notepad now ready 📔!

My only free weekends in Nov are 1/2 Nov and 22/23 Nov. December is (bizarrely) looking pretty clear.

Papyrophile · 04/09/2025 15:37

I have just heard on the radio that Giorgio Armani has died, aged 91.

botemp · 08/09/2025 14:24

Yes, saw that on the news too. Another one going out in the saddle, will be curious about succession. Interacted with him once very briefly in the book section of his flagship store in Milan, very mild mannered, I didn't even cotton on who he was initially.

I braved the weekend crowds to try on the Uniqlo C shirt. It's a rather nice shirt, although the cotton could be nicer, it looks a bit like a jacket all buttoned up and if you leave it open it looks a bit like a sailor shirt. It also has a few interesting design details. Even though I'm normally not a striped shirt person, the one Cate Blanchett modeled is really rather nice (the beige version is awful, drained the life out of me). Didn't end up buying that as it's a rather boxy fit and I like it best tucked entirely into trousers and I just don't have many trousers (if any) where that blue and white stripe would look good tucked in.

I preferred the dark blue one as I have plenty of trousers that would work with and it would probably have a bit of a workwear jumpsuit look tucked in. They didn't have that in stock in my size though so I'm contemplating an online order. Thing is, the XS was still a bit big in a not intended oversized way, they didn't have an XXS to try on but IME that is 'my size' but it tends to come up too short for me, not sure if it would be an issue as I intend to tuck it in. Uniqlo's new (well not so new, but changed since I last ordered) return and additional shipping fees policy are putting me off for now. Should probably just order just the XS and silence the little voice banging on about the XXS maybe fitting better in a really imperceptible way only noticeable by me...

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Floisme · 08/09/2025 15:50

I resisted that shirt but, having said I didn't need any more skirts, I went for the pleated colour block one in green and blue. It arrived yesterday and it does go really well with that jacket I mentioned that I'd been struggling to wear - 1940s, teal blue and rounded at the shoulders which gives it a kind of bomber jacket silhouette that didn't go easily with anything, not even jeans. So I think the skirt's staying. It also has a really pleasing fluid quality and comes with a matching underslip which I hadn't expected. And no-one, but no-one, can complain about it being a sludgy colour.

I sized down because I remembered the collection coming up large and it's a good fit, a trifle long for me but I can roll it over at the waist pretty easily, as I've been doing since my school uniform days.

They're not exactly making it easy to shop online though, are they? I wasn't able to select a pick-up option and the poor deliverer has to ask you for a pin number before they can hand it over.

botemp · 08/09/2025 18:16

Oh, you mentioning the collection comes up big is not helping in silencing the nagging little voice 😑 It's not even the added cost, it's the inconvenience of it all, the weird wording, the inability to return in store now, I still don't know if I'm expected to pay shipping and a fee or if the fee covers the shipping as well. And from what I remember they're really slow at processing returns. I get discouraging needless returns but this feels like a discouragement of shopping online with them altogether. Ugh.

Forgot to mention, also tried the dark blue shirt in a size medium thinking it would have a bit of an artist's smock type vibe in a larger size, and it does have a bit of that, albeit a bit sharper. It didn't work for me but those who can pull of oversized trapezium/geometric type silhouettes would wear it really well, I think, and you can layer a roll neck underneath come winter.

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Floisme · 09/09/2025 08:26

I'll say nothing further bo, other than that I hope someone does buy the shirt as I like to hear the reports.

Assuming there's no mid September heat wave, I should get to try out my new skirt with the jacket next week at a 70th birthday do. Thankfully it's at lunch time as I still can't stay awake beyond 9.30pm.

botemp · 09/09/2025 13:26

AAaah my indecision has shafted me, both sizes now out of stock Sad

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Floisme · 09/09/2025 16:07

Oh no! But if, you hunker down, I'm sure there will be returns

botemp · 10/09/2025 10:49

Yeah, I've got email reminders locked in. Returns lottery will decide my size choice now...

The Fashion Neurosis podcast is back but I have to say the increase in non-fashion guests is putting me off.

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Redandblue11 · 10/09/2025 14:57

@PoppySeedBagelRedux - we are booking our tickets for the V&A , do you need to book or have a membership already?

Will come back to comment on uniqlo …

Redandblue11 · 10/09/2025 17:46

I should get myself to an Uniqlo shop and try that shirt, I am unsure of how it would look on me though.

Fashion neurosis - I still need to catch up on a couple of the previous episodes, but I do not mind the non fashion related guests. The ones so far have tickled my interest anyway, but I have to admit that sometimes they are clearly not on the mindset so some of the pre-prepared questions on their outfit choices make no sense as they do not really know what to convey about it…

PoppySeedBagelRedux · 10/09/2025 22:15

Thanks Red I am a member

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