Size 16, 5'7 and I absolutely hate high heels. Will be with others who will make a token effort but won't be going all out. Any suggestions? I usually live in comfy sandals or boots and can't face the thought of a day wearing heels. I also don't wear a lot of make up and my always rosy cheeks don't particularly suit the red lipstick look. Please hit me up with ideas for something stylish. I'm more inclined towards a 50s look than 20s or 30s...