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Help - my skin is a mess

36 replies

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 21:51

If your skin has equally taken a beating, what have you found that helps? I have sun damage spots (thanks to UV exposure when pregnant) and dermatitis - everything is itchy and red / blotchy all of the time. It’s grim. I’ve seen a dermatologist who prescribed trimovate but honestly that barely keeps things a bay. I currently use an SPF 50 intermittently (was consistently but started to find it too heavy) and have Botox. I’m considering tretinoin, micro needling, laser therapy etc but have no idea where to start. My derm wasn’t terribly interested (they were medical rather than aesthetics).

If you’ve had dodgy skin, what have you done that has really helped. Pics for dramatic effect.

Help - my skin is a mess
Help - my skin is a mess
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NewspaperTaxis · 15/05/2024 22:00

Selinium ACE pills from Savers, they're cheap. Not saying that's it, but a start. I use Simple Light moisturiser which can also be got from Savers.

TheOGCCL · 15/05/2024 22:03

Have you thought about prescription skincare? Dermatica/Skin&Me/Uncouth?

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 22:17

@NewspaperTaxis will look into that - thank you. @TheOGCCL yes I’m thinking of trying this. Has it worked for you?

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NotMyDayJob · 15/05/2024 22:38

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 22:17

@NewspaperTaxis will look into that - thank you. @TheOGCCL yes I’m thinking of trying this. Has it worked for you?

I have prescription skin care but with Klira, it has done wonders for my acne/rosacea/ sun damage etc. it's not the cheapest option of the lot but they will prescribe tret when you're breastfeeding and I also took my rosacea seriously (despite a GP diagnosis dermatica wouldn't treat it).

Duvetdweller · 15/05/2024 22:40

A red light mask has been the most effective skin care I’ve ever used - I use it everyday, remarkable results

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 22:47

@Duvetdweller a red light mask - tell us more…

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heartbrokenof · 15/05/2024 22:47

This is what worked for me but I have to be consistent

Am
Wash face with water only
Moisturising spf 50

Pm
Double cleanse, first with a oil based cleanser and second with one containing salicylic acid
Light gel moisturiser

Once a week I use a moisturising face mask
I use pixi glow tonic if I feel like my skin feels a bit dull but no more than once a week

Less is very often more with skin. Strip everything back and add a new thing in once a month and only if your skin has settled

heartbrokenof · 15/05/2024 22:49

Also re spf you might have to try a few before you find one that works for you but find one without fragrance as a starting point.

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 22:55

@CampervanKween thank you - this is really useful. I’m wondering if I can combine red light therapy and tret.

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CampervanKween · 15/05/2024 22:57

Yes, you can. I have the mask I use it every morning as I lie in bed whilst waking up. I was looking old so have really experimented on sorting my skin out the past 6 months or so.

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 23:00

@CampervanKween thats fab, really appreciate that thank you.

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igomeow · 15/05/2024 23:02

I get really bad pigmentation and switching from a Suncream to a sunblock has made a big difference https://www.google.com/

Also really loving this brand, especially the exfoliating face wash www.biovenebarcelona.com/products/the-conscious-vitamin-c-age-defying-radiance-serum-organic-lemon

igomeow · 15/05/2024 23:05

Also I've noticed a lot of people have recommended the red light mask.. I know as a shop it can be a bit hit and miss but they had some in my local TKMaxx, I may go back and buy one.

CampervanKween · 15/05/2024 23:05

They do recommend that you put the tret on after you've used the mask not before as the light can make it less effective. So I always do the mask first thing then apply tret then the creams.

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 23:07

@igomeow i usually wear factor 50. So you wear that under makeup?

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igomeow · 15/05/2024 23:12

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 23:07

@igomeow i usually wear factor 50. So you wear that under makeup?

Yep, I end up with pigmentation otherwise. (Melasma) My GP recommend this and it's so much more effective.

Okaaaay · 15/05/2024 23:13

@igomeow thank you

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fruitpastille · 16/05/2024 06:18

Greg Foot did a good radio 4 programme looking into effectiveness of LED masks Really interesting.

BBC Radio 4 - Sliced Bread, LED Face Masks

Is an LED face mask the secret to brighter, clearer, more youthful skin?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m001yxkn

ShangPie · 16/05/2024 06:43

You could always look at a tinted SPF, like Heliocare (recommended by derms), or the French pharmacy brands like Avene, La Roche Posay, Bioderma etc from Boots.

That might remove one item from your routine and make it more comfortable to wear, which keeps you using it daily.

For the redness, have you looked at Cicapair? It’s Korean and you can get it in Boots

GettingStuffed · 16/05/2024 08:11

If you have irritated skin don't throw more creams or drums at it. If I were you I'd research products that help with the skin barrier.

If you don't wear makeup a facial cloth (,not a flannel) as they don't rub the skin but do remove the dirt.

Illpickthatup · 16/05/2024 08:42

I've been using tret for a few months now and noticed a huge difference in my skin already. I don't have sun damage like yours, I was using It more for fine lines, but I do have a brown patch on my right cheek and it's definitely faded that. My skin just feels better overall and looks brighter. It does dry your skin out and can irritate it at first. When this happened I just skipped a night and slathered on the moisturiser. I found my DDs child's farm moisturiser to be the best. It's really thick so I only use at night. I put the tret on first, let it sink in for about 10 minutes then put on a layer of moisturiser.

Start off with a really low concentration (0.015 or 0.025) and increase after 3/4 months if your skin is coping ok with it.

Sunshineandpinkclouds · 16/05/2024 08:55

Just following for the tips.

chrissycn · 16/05/2024 09:00

Your derm can prescribe you hydroquinone, it's the gold standard for pigmentation removal.

windyweather66 · 16/05/2024 09:22

My skin is similar to yours OP. Freckles, redness, open pores, moles, tendency to spots etc. I'm in my 60's now and have always had 'problem skin' and realise I probably have rosacea, which I've exacerbated over the years by going overboard with cleansing etc, which has stripped my natural barrier and makes it worse.

My advice would be to treat your skin very, very gently with simple, delicate cleansing and moisterisers. Nothing that will strip it of natural oils.

30 years ago a beauty therapist advised just cleansing with a simple oil. My skin loved it and although I no longer do this I regularly give my skin an oil 'treat' overnight. Instant calming.