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Can I wear this dress as a white woman?

66 replies

4fingerKitKat · 15/05/2024 15:44

I found a secondhand dress and I was really drawn to the bold print. It’s by the designer Kemi Telford who is of Nigerian heritage and her clothes are very influenced by this.

I love the dress in abstract as an item of clothing but trying it on I’m not sure I feel completely comfortable wearing it.

The dress similar to this one:

https://kemitelford.com/collections/dresses/products/green-vine-button-down-dress

Is it cultural appropriation? Or just too jarring? Or is it fine? I don’t know.

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PhuckyNell · 15/05/2024 15:44

Of course you can

Wizardcalledoz · 15/05/2024 15:47

I was wondering this myself after seeing adverts for heritage clothing. They're stunning but I did wonder if maybe I would look odd in them as a fair skinned, red headed woman!

Comefromaway · 15/05/2024 15:49

It looks a bit 70;s to me

TiberiusFlam · 15/05/2024 15:51

Kemi Telford was beloved of the white mumfluencer set about five years ago and used to gift them clothes every 5 mins. I don’t think she minds.

Screamingabdabz · 15/05/2024 15:51

It’s just patterned fabric in a fairly bog standard shirt dress style. I don’t sense any cultural attribution from what the website says. Do it and enjoy wearing it! I’m sure she’ll appreciate the business.

PartTroll · 15/05/2024 15:51

Comefromaway · 15/05/2024 15:49

It looks a bit 70;s to me

She wasn't asking for opinions on the style

Joolsin · 15/05/2024 15:53

I love the dress, and it saddens me that people are afraid to wear things they love because "cultural appropriation". Surely it's fantastic that you love this dress and wear it. If someone asks where you got got it, you'll tell them and give the designer more business.

Comefromaway · 15/05/2024 15:54

PartTroll · 15/05/2024 15:51

She wasn't asking for opinions on the style

I wasn't giving my opinion on the style. To me, I would associate it with being influenced by the 70's not Nigerian heritage.

Westfacing · 15/05/2024 15:55

I'm sure the designer doesn't mind who buys and wears her dresses.

The blurb says it was inspired by Betty Draper of Mad Men!

Misthios · 15/05/2024 15:55

Sarah Millican is a big advocate of a brand called Zuri which is along similar lines, they look fab on her and she is very white.

If you like it, go for it.

Neverdo · 15/05/2024 15:57

I don't look at that and think Nigerian, it's just a fairly ordinary, if brightly coloured dress to me.

KomproMatilda · 15/05/2024 16:01

Isn’t Kemi Telford now stocked at J dot Lewis?

Pretty sure they’re not asking for birth certificates or DNA samples at the doors …

Hmm
garlicandsapphires · 15/05/2024 16:09

It's sad that people are nervous about wearing a colour or print that originates from another country or tradition.
I am British and love Indian block print fabric, I am certainly not going to stop wearing it. I would probably not wear a sari or salwar kameez though.

garlicandsapphires · 15/05/2024 16:10

I think OP's fabric is called ankara.

drspouse · 15/05/2024 16:16

I lived in East Africa for some years and had lots of print or batik cloth made into clothes by local tailors. My friends and colleagues loved that I wore stuff made there, gives people jobs, showed I appreciated the culture, and they would advise me on which one to wear for different occasions.

This isn't even a proper African dress, just "inspired by".

LadyKenya · 15/05/2024 16:16

Wizardcalledoz · 15/05/2024 15:47

I was wondering this myself after seeing adverts for heritage clothing. They're stunning but I did wonder if maybe I would look odd in them as a fair skinned, red headed woman!

Personally I think that you would look lovely, especially having red hair, that would compliment the green, yellows, and orange hues, that are typically used.

Wizardcalledoz · 15/05/2024 16:18

LadyKenya · 15/05/2024 16:16

Personally I think that you would look lovely, especially having red hair, that would compliment the green, yellows, and orange hues, that are typically used.

Thank you - I'll try some so!

RoseUnder · 15/05/2024 16:20

Definitely OP. Nice you're thinking through this though. Gorgeous dress!

Echobelly · 15/05/2024 16:21

Yeah - I love African prints but try to only buy them from black designer/makers (rather than high street items) as I think the issue about 'cultural appropriation' is about white people profiting from such appropriation, not people just wearing it, especially if they are supporting black businesses.

crackfoxy · 15/05/2024 16:24

TiberiusFlam · 15/05/2024 15:51

Kemi Telford was beloved of the white mumfluencer set about five years ago and used to gift them clothes every 5 mins. I don’t think she minds.

Just coming on to say this . Love her clothes

TheYearOfSmallThings · 15/05/2024 16:27

Of course it is fine. She is running a business! People are meant to buy what she is selling.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 15/05/2024 16:40

Echobelly · 15/05/2024 16:21

Yeah - I love African prints but try to only buy them from black designer/makers (rather than high street items) as I think the issue about 'cultural appropriation' is about white people profiting from such appropriation, not people just wearing it, especially if they are supporting black businesses.

Absolutely this, buy the dress OP.

CharlotteRumpling · 15/05/2024 16:48

Yes you can. And if you want to wear Indian block print or even a sari/ salwar kamiz, knock yourself out.

RoseUnder · 15/05/2024 17:01

Echobelly · 15/05/2024 16:21

Yeah - I love African prints but try to only buy them from black designer/makers (rather than high street items) as I think the issue about 'cultural appropriation' is about white people profiting from such appropriation, not people just wearing it, especially if they are supporting black businesses.

I think this is key. I mean, don't buy African prints from Primark (Irish owned) or Shein (Chinese) with little to no investment in any African business or fashion sector.

Try to buy it from a designer who comes from that culture. Same for other clothes and jewellery inspired by or based on specific cultural styles. Ethical shopping, basically...

But do wear it, and enjoy!

CharlotteRumpling · 15/05/2024 17:11

Block print is Indian and everybody from Zara to Toast are using it.As is Ikat. Is that unethical?