I have OCD so my brain is obsessing over this, and once I get fixated on something it really becomes a problem in my mind so please bear with me if this sounds really stupid!
I’m 43, have 3 young-ish children and slowly losing the ton of weight put on over the years. After having my first DC, I couldn’t bear wearing tights. I hated the polyester feeling and even when I was at my slimmest, I never had a thigh gap so always needed something to mitigate thigh rub.
In recent years I’ve been ok with wool tights in winter so started wearing dresses again. I’m sick of looking so scruffy all the time in jeans and jumper as my standard attire and want to start wearing some nicer dresses for work now it’s Spring. I work in financial technology and we put on a lot of events for senior financial people so the dress code tends to be smart casual. Definitely not jeans, and I want to make more of an effort than black trousers. It’s still too cold for bare legs and probably will be all through May.
I’m also…I suppose…finding my style again after years looking after babies and young kids, always in the park so in very casual attire. I’m also kinda feeling my age - there’s a lot of 20 something women at work and I’m adjusting to being significantly older than them. Would flesh coloured tights be ok? Do people still wear them? Do they still feel awful and plasticky?
Apologies for the long essay. I keep going round in circles in my head about this, have a lot of lovely smart dresses I’d love to wear, but now hung up on the logistics of wearing them. Stupid I know but this is how OCD debilitates me 😩