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Is this dress okay for a wedding?

49 replies

Waitingforsummer25 · 30/03/2024 14:28

It’s the most beautiful dress and have yet to have an occasion to wear it! But is it too much for a wedding? Is it too ‘look at me’

https://uk.realisationpar.com/the-gia-havana/

The Gia - Havana

Bell sleeves and floor length, the Gia is the ultimate refined 70's elegance.

https://uk.realisationpar.com/the-gia-havana/

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Happyhappyeveryday · 31/03/2024 14:04

Yes, it’s beautiful. Stunning with minimal strappy sandals and nude bag. You’ll look, and feel amazing, I bet. Have a lovely time x

Oblomov24 · 31/03/2024 14:21

I think it's lovely and totally suitable for a wedding.

JinnJin · 31/03/2024 14:39

Just. So. So tacky. I guess if you want to channel your inner Kardashian, but maybe a wedding isn’t the place. Maybe for the wedding evening social – but I still think it’s more appropriate for a wag nightclub ruse. Since you asked! LOL

JinnJin · 31/03/2024 14:41

kkneat · 30/03/2024 16:28

The red rule etiquette has always been around for years and years dying out now I think something about drawing attention away from the bride

That old fashioned approach still seems a fair attitude to me though!

JinnJin · 31/03/2024 14:43

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 30/03/2024 23:12

I've never heard of these bonkers "rules" anywhere else.

It’s not a bonkers rule. It’s about having respect for the occasion, and in this case, the bride and groom.

SirChenjins · 31/03/2024 14:54

For the evening reception, perhaps, but it’s not really wedding-ey. I think it looks a bit cheap tbh (as in, in the 70% off section) and definitely not worth £265

Theblacktulip · 31/03/2024 15:20

It's gorgeous. Wear it.

Theblacktulip · 31/03/2024 15:21

PiggieWig · 30/03/2024 14:36

It’s lovely, but some people are funny about red at weddings. It’s supposed to signify the ‘other woman’ or something daft like that.

I’d save it for a different occasion - fabulous though it is.

Don't be daft.

Parker231 · 31/03/2024 15:43

It’s lovely - definitely wear it. I love colour at weddings. We had a black tie wedding and the ladies were in their long dresses - the colours were gorgeous - made for great photos!

JustJessi · 31/03/2024 15:58

Nope. I would never wear red to a wedding

Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 16:57

JinnJin · 31/03/2024 14:39

Just. So. So tacky. I guess if you want to channel your inner Kardashian, but maybe a wedding isn’t the place. Maybe for the wedding evening social – but I still think it’s more appropriate for a wag nightclub ruse. Since you asked! LOL

Tacky?! Oh wow, glad your opinion is in the minority on here! though as you say I did ask! So opinion is accepted 😊
never seen Kim Kardashian in anything like this, just doesn’t feel her vibe at all.

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Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 17:03

SirChenjins · 31/03/2024 14:54

For the evening reception, perhaps, but it’s not really wedding-ey. I think it looks a bit cheap tbh (as in, in the 70% off section) and definitely not worth £265

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Maybe online it doesn’t do it justice but in real life it’s really very beautiful, 100% silk, bias cut and drapes over body amazingly. ( I also bought it second hand so didn’t pay £265!)

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Candleabra · 31/03/2024 17:06

I think this would be fine for an American wedding, where the dress code always seems to be much more formal cocktail / evening dress. Not sure about a British wedding tbh (sorry).

Loubelle70 · 31/03/2024 17:08

Id wear it .i love it. Id wear nude shoes and bag, nude makeup, and small earrings though to counteract

Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 17:16

Candleabra · 31/03/2024 17:06

I think this would be fine for an American wedding, where the dress code always seems to be much more formal cocktail / evening dress. Not sure about a British wedding tbh (sorry).

ohh really, it actually is in America! I’m in UK but bride is American.

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xyz111 · 31/03/2024 17:18

Lovely!!! Yes wear it 😀

Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 17:19

Loubelle70 · 31/03/2024 17:08

Id wear it .i love it. Id wear nude shoes and bag, nude makeup, and small earrings though to counteract

That sounds perfect! Just how I’d style it

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CreateYourOwnUsername · 31/03/2024 17:20

I think it's fine. You're well covered up even if it is body hugging.

I don't wear white to weddings (well, not mainly white anyway) and it is about the only fashion rule I stick to. But imo the red rule is quite old fashioned. I had heard of it though, even outside MN

SirChenjins · 31/03/2024 17:23

Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 17:03

Maybe online it doesn’t do it justice but in real life it’s really very beautiful, 100% silk, bias cut and drapes over body amazingly. ( I also bought it second hand so didn’t pay £265!)

Good, glad it looks better in RL. Still don’t think it’s suitable for a wedding unless it’s for the reception but it sounds like cocktail dresses are fine for weddings in America.

I’d heard of the red thing for weddings but not sure it’s widely known over here. Maybe check it’s not a definite thing in America though, just in case?

Topseyt123 · 31/03/2024 17:27

It's lovely. Wear it if you want to. I think it is totally suitable.

Some of these "rules" are just bonkers. Ignore and enjoy your dress.

Loubelle70 · 31/03/2024 17:35

Waitingforsummer25 · 31/03/2024 17:19

That sounds perfect! Just how I’d style it

Go for it...i would. 😉

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 31/03/2024 17:58

kkneat · 30/03/2024 16:28

The red rule etiquette has always been around for years and years dying out now I think something about drawing attention away from the bride

The "red rule" is complete nonsense- particularly the "it means you've slept with the groom" or I suppose the bride, version.

There is something to be said for "don't distract from the bride" e.g at a very low key wedding turning up in something spectacular, no matter what the colour, might be a bit off.

Christielorretta · 25/06/2024 03:58

No Don't WEARThis to the wedding-fromfor the actual wedding don't wear this but for the reception party celebration this will be really just the thing and it's always very cool when you have a change of outfit

Fintoo · 25/06/2024 04:24

It’s pretty awesome. But, in all honestly, I wouldn’t wear it to a wedding just because it’s very “look at me”. But it depends on the wedding, the social circle etc, as to whether that’s a good thing or a socially-inept thing. Definitely think twice though.

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